i'm trying to become a verified provider on TER..... but no one is responding or helping.... who do i get members from TER to do reviews and where is my TER ID?

When you get your first review, admin will assign you an ID number.  Suggest you read the self help center, it should answer some of your questions.

Joining in the conversation on your local board can help guys get to know you a little. Keep it light and non confrontational, you will soon get your first review and be on your way.