I stopped writing reviews a couple of years ago as I simply got tired of writing them. Fortunately I have not had an experience that I felt compelled to really "bash" any gal in a review. About the closest I came was discussing a misleading pic and an age issue.
But I would also do my own research to make sure that the gal that I was going to see was pretty close to her current posted pics (I have befriended enough folks to back channel with that I trust). Age was something that, unless it was materially different simply was/is not that important. Honestly, if a gal is claiming to be 37 and is 47 but looks like her pics I'm OK with that. It's the gals that claim to be 37 and look 57 that I take umbrage with. And that only happened once a number of years ago with a VERY well reviewed gal. But I took the issue to PM/email with my pals who confirmed what I had experienced. She is no longer a hooker...thank God LOL If you want to write a review that is significantly different than the ones she already has up....be prepared for not only her harassing you, but her WK contingent as well. My experience says to simply write it off...email/PM all your pals and let them know the real deal. Frankly the word gets around quite quickly and usually with more credibility than writing what may appear to be a retaliatory review. Good luck.I have been hobbying for a year and a half or so. Never wrote reviews but used them to check providers. I finally started writing thinking this was a GOOD thing and wham provider blowback. The girl tried to insinuate we never met and then when caught she told me off basically. TER checked it out and left my review because I DID SEE HER and could prove it but here is my question, how much info is ok honest or hold back? I was told by provider that I was rude, I wasn't trying to piss off anyone but all true and thought it should be known in review. No win situation if you write an honest but not great review? I really don't want to be a dick so advice appreciated, maybe I just shouldn't write if its going to be negative?
and one of them is the guff from providers who don't feel that the review was honest.
You've only given one "bad" review (And in truth, it wasn't all that bad, just not real good.), and so I assume that's the one that is giving you a hard time. Some guys would probably love to see a provider who does what they want and doesn't talk either.
The other thing you'll have to deal with is other providers who won't see a guy if he has given out less than stellar reviews.
First of all, let me say that I admire people who stick to their principles and say it like it is. You are to be commended for that.
So, here are the various ways to avoid the blowback:
First, wait the full 90 days before you write the review. By that time many providers have forgotten who is was they saw, and therefore won't be able to connect you to it. For this to work however you would have to not let the gal know what your board handle is, or that you are even a TER member.
The other avenue is to use an alias instead of your handle. Again delay writing the review the full 90 days in order for this to be fully effective.
You can also complain to TER if a gal gets really out of line and make threats. TER looks upon that very seriously. Save any damning emails to prove your side.
and by then she'll not be sure who you were... in case you are concerned about flak. But if you wait too long the ad you used may expire & you'd have to hunt for a new ad if there is one. You should be honest and fair to both parties.
Some gals consider anything less than glowing to be negative... In my view, after successful sex... it would be a piss poor experience if I couldn't rate it a 7/7. And I actually think the number system is crude at best... the written text is much more important.
I urge to write a draft somewhere (I use my hobby email drafts) & wait a week & edit it as necessary.
Not everyone is a 10 / 10. I see lots of fun gals who are less than 10s.
Some take detailed notes about us and our encounters.. I saw a hooker in 2005 and she remembered everything about me in 2009. Back then, I wasn't even active on the boards, as I am now.. So you'd think that out of mind is out of sight....Nope...
If you want to write an honest review, go for it.. Expect retaliation. Providers give me grief all the time for writing honest review, and even threaten, but I am smarter than them and only share very little info about me when I see them..
Some common sense measure you can set in place are
Never give real name...
Use burner phone....
Always meet at hotel and never your place.
If you can't sleep at night, best thing is not to write reviews at all. Who says you gotta write anything.. Most valuable info I have received is via back channel anyway....
How someone words things and expresses disappointment is vital ... I read your reviews and see that you aren't a negative person and you had a variety of reviews which to me says they may be more valid ... You can start to question when all the reviews from the same guy are basically the same.
IMO you worded a couple of things harshly yet stated it could have been a bad day for her and we all know that we all have those days ... Even the guys lol but you aren't being judged. The information wasn't evil and we got your point ... Maybe she will put forth more effort in the future so listen learned (we hope)
I have a bad review, which I won't go into but things can be said in a kinder way to not offend or hurt ... Maybe it would make a difference, maybe not ... I know for me it wasn't the ratings but the words or comments he made ... True or not ... Its all perspective (example : he said not only was I a bbw but a big/huge bbw and that it was hard to look at me that me so he needed to flip me over ... Hurtful and unnecessary!) And I'm not even a bbw.
Same her emails then put her on ignore if she continues.
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Due to the fear of retribution/retaliation from providers over negative reviews, I don't write negative reviews. If I have a shitty session with a hooker, I just don't review her.
Now believe me. I've had some horrible sessions with hookers where I've been treated so unprofessionally and just shitty in general and I've wanted to make it known. However, I've heard about too many johns getting blacklisted, outed etc, for bad reviews that I refuse to risk my livelihood so a bunch of johns can know how shitty a hooker is.
I stopped writing reviews a couple of years ago as I simply got tired of writing them. Fortunately I have not had an experience that I felt compelled to really "bash" any gal in a review. About the closest I came was discussing a misleading pic and an age issue.
But I would also do my own research to make sure that the gal that I was going to see was pretty close to her current posted pics (I have befriended enough folks to back channel with that I trust). Age was something that, unless it was materially different simply was/is not that important. Honestly, if a gal is claiming to be 37 and is 47 but looks like her pics I'm OK with that. It's the gals that claim to be 37 and look 57 that I take umbrage with. And that only happened once a number of years ago with a VERY well reviewed gal.
But I took the issue to PM/email with my pals who confirmed what I had experienced. She is no longer a hooker...thank God LOL
If you want to write a review that is significantly different than the ones she already has up....be prepared for not only her harassing you, but her WK contingent as well. My experience says to simply write it off...email/PM all your pals and let them know the real deal. Frankly the word gets around quite quickly and usually with more credibility than writing what may appear to be a retaliatory review.
Good luck.
Most of the time, I have opted to not review. If it was really horrible, I would, but the ones I held back were not to bad, just just not great. So. I opted not to review because service was not bad, just not what I expected. OK, so I am guilty of not warning my fellow hobbyists, but did not feel others would not have a bad time, just not as much as I wanted....
Swim
dirty bathroom, towel in sink bed not made as it some guy just came on it? plus the whole date was set through text? she's an amateur and deserves the review. too many guys let some girl slide by on details because she is ok looking and spreads her legs. these are common sense details a monkey should be able to pull off, and she thought it was ok. funny. you will run into your share of providers who claim they 'never saw you' when they get that reality of your review, but always keep your emails that led up to the date.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/showReview.asp?Review=1476545
shape up or ship out woman.
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