I know there are ladies who are clock watchers, and I know there are ladies that explicitly ask on their website for the man to be considerate of the time in order to provide a better atmosphere.

For everyone else, who's job is it to watch the time? The lady's or the gent's?

If she provides non-rush, and you go over, are you expected to tip for the additional time?

For me it depends on the girl. If her service is not up to par ill split as soon as the hour is up if not sooner. There are other girls which i try to milk the clock as much as possible or until they start giving off the hint to leave. Do be considerate though, if shes starts to constantly look at the clock after awhile dont fight it be on your way.

Different camps on this one:

1.  It is the ladies job, she is the professional.
i.e., you visit with your shrink, you are told when the time is up.

2.  You watch it, you are the consumer of the time.  i.e., you go visit your lawyer who bills you for the hour... you KNOW you will be watching the clock!  If you go over you also KNOW that you will be billed for the time.

Ultimately I believe that it is up to the lady.  This does not relieve you of being responsible.

If you notice that the time is going over or you would like it to as you are so in the moment... ASK about it.  

If you notice the time went over OFFER.  Even if your "extra" is not accepted you will be remembered as a gentleman who cares and is respectful of the boundaries, the lady and her time.

Keep in mind that this profession is a bit unique in it's requirements that a provider is encouraged to make everything feel timeless, and yet manage the time... quite a balancing act.  In addition it can be hard for someone who is prized for being friendly and accommodating to tell someone "time's up!"  



-- Modified on 6/12/2005 1:49:20 AM

I find that most gentlemen are respect of keeping the expected time, because they also have other obligations. For those who are not I simple drop a subtle hint.

-- Modified on 6/13/2005 8:52:22 AM

A provider that has been around for a few years, has an internal 1 hour clock.. we pace out  appts and are always in control of them

most often i put in a one hour cd.. when its over, its over. Of course not in the middle of a downstroke..



-- Modified on 6/13/2005 5:12:49 AM

lmfao, Ciara, I love you. OK, I lust you.