It is all about making the the lady feel safe about meeting you. Just keep trying and you will find the right combination, some ladies are very rigid about what they require and others not so much.
My experience with ladies that do not require provider references, is that they also will not give references.
I've been away from the hobby for a few years and live in a new area (Orange County). I've contacted several providers, all of which require references. My question is how do you find a lady who doesn't require a reference, or is there some other way to establish my good character?
If you find a lady who doesn't require references of some kind, run away. Don't see her. She's obviously not concerned for her own safety, much less yours. As suggested, join one of the verification sites. (Date-Check, Preferred411) You will find plenty of ladies listed on those sites, in your area, and their reviews will be directly linked to TER, if they have any.
I don't have any references. I signed up on P411 and they verified me. I contacted a lady through the P411 site and now I have a date next week with a young lady that is very, very nice. She didn't ask me for references. i checked her out on TER. She has two pages of 9s and each of her reviewers has many reviews. Some ladies trust P411 to do their screening for them.
It is all about making the the lady feel safe about meeting you. Just keep trying and you will find the right combination, some ladies are very rigid about what they require and others not so much.
My experience with ladies that do not require provider references, is that they also will not give references.
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