I have been searching all over and can't find an answer. Sorry if this is some common knowledge, but I really want to know from the community at large.

I liken it to buying a car from a private party. Let's say you're advertised a 2008 mustang, red paint job, right mileage etc... $8000 and you roll up to meet said seller only to see a 2004 toyota corolla black paint job.  I'm out the door, or turning around and driving away. Is it right? You decide. But I look at is as if what I'm going to pay for isn't as advertised (not talking services here) I'm going to politely leave.

It's hard earned money (for most of us!) And I want to get what I'm paying for.

Again, my opinion. Good luck! And use TER so you won't have to worry! Haha

Some guys have stayed, thinking with the small head.  However, it is perfectly ok to leave immediately if you feel that you are the victim of a B & S.  You should report this happened so other guys will be aware of her.  Just do not name her openly, say what happened and tell guys to PM you for more info.

Swim

When the girl in the picture looks like a beauty queen and the girl that shows up looks more like Frankenstein, there is nothing wrong with just telling them that they are not the same person and you are not interested in seeing them.

Look at this way - lets say you had something set-up with a top-notch lady for $500 per hour and then showed up and told her all you could scrape together was $25 - do you think she's going to say that's ok and go through with it - hell no - and she is going to be more than just a little bit angry at you for wasting her time.  Same thing holds true when the lady changes the terms.

Speaking of beauty queens.........

I know I tend to run that risk a little more, since I tend not to go through agencies....now I won't have to sweat breaking the code of conduct, so to speak...

a provider using fake pictures I find it perfectly acceptable to leave.Why reward bad behavior?If you have ever read these B&S reviews guys post majority of the time they end up mad and disappointed.
Better to leave you can reduce these chances by researching who you are going to see by reading her profile and reviews to make sure pics are accurate or there was no talk of B&S during the appointment.
Go with well-reviewed ladies and have a good time!

If you order a steak at your favorite restaurant but they bring a lobster instead, do you feel obliged to eat it and pay for it?

It is not what you ordered; of course you can leave.

Has anyone ever had this happen when they have invited the provider to their hotel room and then the provider (who is not the person in the ad)either threatens to raise hell (drawing attention to your room or that area of the hotel) or actually does.  Just wondering since you don't want that to happen when you might be out of town on a business trip.  Also, I have no idea if any provider would actually do that but I guess they could.

you have greatly reduced the chances of this happening.  I'm sure there some B&S providers out there that would do that.  If you stick to well-reviewed providers, this is less likely to happen.  That's why it is so important to be thorough in your selection.

To answer your question, no, this has never happened to me.  However, all but a very few of my dates have been Incalls.

Swim

you see is not what you ordered, then don't open the door.  If the provider makes a scene by pounding on the door or calling you, (1) don't answer your phone and (2) if necessary, call hotel security and report the disturbance.  But, don't tell them you invited someone to your room and now you don't want to let them in.

If she is not what you ordered, simply tell her so. You don't have to be rude about it (of course that is always an option lol), but politely but firmly tell her that she is not what you requested and that you have no intentions of going through with a session after being lied to.

To simply not answer the door might lead her to believe that she is the victim of a NCNS, and that it's your fault, not hers.  Don't be a pussy, let her know that you are not going to reward bad behavior. That's the only way to discourage these ROB's from continuing their lying, cheating ways.

That's exactly what TER is here for. I guarantee you, if she is B&S, she has done it to others and there should be no white knights to worry about. Of course as Swim says the chances of this happening are remote among well reviewed providers.

You just prefer incall?

I stick to incall and I stay off of BP. I only see well-reviewed providers. I've never had to deal with this situation and I probably never will, but I can think of many reasons NOT to answer that door if you're going to send her away.

What if she gets mad and starts screaming rape outside of your room?

What is she goes down to the lobby and tells the front desk you're dealing drugs from your room?

What if she does one of a million psycho things she could possibly do because you pissed her off?

You're obviously not dealing with someone who has the highest moral values since you're in this position in the first place. Do you honestly believe that by "politely" telling her she's a bad girl that she will magically change her ways? LOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!! I'm a war vet (82D ABN) and certainly no pussy, and I definitely believe it's much more prudent to avoid dealing with people like this as if they have the plague. There's really no right or wrong way to handle this situation ... to each their own. At least you can look like a "tough guy" while you're sitting in your room answering questions from the police.

and opens the door for her to claim you NCNS'd on her, etc.

There is no real good choice when confronted with a B&S, just a series of "less bad" choices.

I do a lot of TOFTTing and have been at this for over thirty five years, I am neither a "tough guy" nor have I spent any time sitting in my room answering questions from LE, but I am also not going to sit in my room while some fat ass ugly ho pounds on my door because I don't have the stones to simply tell her to go away. You freely admit that you have never had to deal with this situation, I have. I stand by my earlier statements.

She can also claim NCNS if you do open the door. She can claim NCNS if she comes in and conducts a regular session too. It's still her word against your word whether it's true or not. The difference is NCNS won't have the cops knocking on your door.

Look, I don't care how you handle it. I never said your way was wrong. My point was just because you would handle it differently then the guy you responded to initially doesn't mean you need to start dropping "chickenshit", "pussy", and "grow some stones" on him.

miss ROB or B & S into the room.  I'm over 6 ft. tall but if quido has a weapon, then my size and machoism will not really be of value.

I agree that there is no right and wrong way to handle this if it occurs.  Better to do your homework and prevent it from happening by seeing well reviewed ladies.