Newbie - FAQ

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swimtrekr 58 Reviews 1189 reads
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The best place to get quality clients is probably here, as opposed to BP.  Since I don't know where you are, it's hard to say whether BP will generate quality clients for you.  In my area, it's not too well thought of as far as that goes.

No idea what your prob is with DC, sorry can't help you there.

I would suggest you start posting replies to threads on the regional board closest to you.  You are allowed to post one ad every 7 days, read the ad posting guidelines before you do that.  BTW, you have to have either an ad website, or a personal one to link to, just so you know.

Reviews are another way to get established as a provider.  Many guys, like myself, will not see, or at least hesitate to see, a provider with no reviews.  Hopefully, you can get some members as clients and have them review you.

Good luck,
Swim

OSP 26 Reviews 1557 reads
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have a provider already verified on datecheck to vouche for you, if thats an option for you.

swimtrekr 58 Reviews 776 reads
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You're welcome, Summer.  If you are just responding to a post, you may include your website, as long as your post is just a response to the thread, and does not include any info that would be considered an ad.

If you are in Phoenix, you need to start responding to threads there.  That will get your name out there, and establish a presence to get yourself off moderation.  Once you are un-moderated, your posts will go up instantly, without having to wait for the mod to approve them.

Swim

-- Modified on 7/27/2011 12:47:35 PM

swimtrekr 58 Reviews 1000 reads
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If you are moderated on one forum here, you are moderated on all the boards, until you get un-moderated.

Swim

pimpfortheday 701 reads
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Your photos are horrific and don't give us any details of what you really look like.

Some full body shots, and not just a torso would be nice. If I were shopping I would bypass you right off the bat. Even candid photos would work.

Good luck.

SummerSanders 3178 reads
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7 / 32

Hey all
I'm new to the boards/TER/Date Check, but am an experienced provider who took a break from the hobby. I'm trying to get a solid and clean reputation but it seems like I run into roadblocks getting there. (Understandably, the integrity and safety of hobbyists and providers is at stake). Is BP really the way to go to regain clientele, etc? or are there other options. Date Check says they do not have enough info to verify me and I have offered them more personal information. I really don't want to go back the agency route. Any suggestions?

pimpfortheday 798 reads
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Schneeky 9 Reviews 971 reads
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..I've had a great experience with it so far.. And in my neck of the woods it's about the only game in town right now. Might be different where you are, tho'. I will say that every provider I've met from there has been straight up, whether they were compatible with me or not. Just takes a bit more research and it doesn't hurt to have a little intuitiveness to ya. It's pretty easy to spot the sleaze ads there.  And just as easy to pick out the ones offering straight up service. 'Guess what I'm gettin at there was to have a nice ad if yer gonna do it that way.

Another thing I'll suggest if ya go that route is to have some decent pics made.!! I get so aggravated seeing blurry, dark, or otherwise distorted "phone pics" from the toilet. Of all the things I like seeing on a gal's anatomy, her armpit is lowest on the list.. d;^)  But I'm sure there's a "fan club" for that somewhere.

Good luck to ya, ma'am.. d:^)  Schneeks..

SummerSanders 1074 reads
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12 / 32

Thanks! Yes, there probably is an armpit fetish out there somewhere.....takes all kinds to make a world!

SummerSanders 950 reads
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13 / 32

Thanks Swim!
I'm in Phoenix and at the risk of looking like an "ad" when I posted this I didn't include my website. It is a (continual) work in progress and will have more/better/professional pics in the future but I just wanted to get up and running because I can be - egads! - a procrasinator at times!

SummerSanders 961 reads
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14 / 32

Great idea, however, I don't know any providers right now! Thanks though - I might try to get in touch with someone that way if I can find someone with same ethics, etc.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 698 reads
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15 / 32

If some reason, you've changed your name , you can still link them to this new one. Also build a website. There are a number of canned escort web sites. You should also have an email address for hobby activities, as many clients like to email. Think about getting a smart phone, so you can answer emails promptly

SummerSanders 798 reads
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Thanks! I am all set up technology wise....web, smartphone, etc etc. Adding other sites, etc to be linked to my web. Hope to keep everything fresh and ongoing development of the site. Have my private email as well as the dreaded "Contact Me" form listed on my website. On top of those things at all time.

I dropped out of the market and also left the state for a while to pursue other personal life interests so have no reviews from days gone by.  I'm sure with time all things will work out wonderfully, just want to make sure I'm headed in the right direction!!

Summer

SummerSanders 526 reads
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O.k. I have started placing my site on my posts. I had been moderated on a couple so was being extra careful. Thanks.

Summer

SummerSanders 830 reads
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SummerSanders 665 reads
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Yes, that is what I understood. I think I was moderated for being new and also my link was posted in correctly - all learning experiences. There was only one confusing item on an ad I placed which was moderated as being a "duplicate" but there was not a double post anywhere. So I have questioned that one because it is blocking my ad timeframes.

hiddenhills 143 Reviews 2142 reads
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The board is pretty tame, check all the rules for regional ter advertising for escorts. It's located in the self help center, near the life preserver. BTW, I'm in Phoenix.  As you may recall, the summers can be pretty challenging for escorts. Good luck

Dr Who revived 491 reads
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You have received some good advice her thus far.

What I would suggest is that you do a "reality check" on who and what you want to be as a provider.  By that I mean are you seeking less than hourly dates (half or quarter hours) or are you more interested in creating longer (2+ hour dates).  Once you define what type of provider you would be most comfortable (and that may take some time and experience) being, you should dedicate your advertising and websites to that type of customer you seek.

BP is a good option if you are seeking less than an hour dates (at least in Chicago).  Being in Phoenix (as others have suggested there are better options) you should do your homework and look at the various escort malls.  See how the gals advertise there, and look at the sites they have created.

Then take a look at what you have and decide if you will be competitive with these other ladies.  Your pics are the portal for most of us, and right now all you have up is one that indicates you might be into "sploshing" as an activity.  That might graner a few guys interest, but if you are looking for guys seeking GFE they may immediately dismiss you from that category.

Read all that is here and learn.

Good luck to you on your endeavor.

SummerSanders 780 reads
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22 / 32

Ha Ha. Yes, I plan on it :) The website is a work in progress and I felt it was better to grab something than nothing...... All an experiment with what works and what doesn't. I had some professional ones done for webcam promotion but some little thing about the form 2257 that I didn't sign off on . . . .

SummerSanders 745 reads
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Thanks! I have so far been trying but got moderated. I have just resubmitted another. I agree summer is challenging for everyone!

SummerSanders 842 reads
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24 / 32

Thanks for the advice! Target marketing makes sense. No, not seeking the less than hours dates. Testing the waters, seeing what works, what doesn't. I do lean more towards fetish/PSE than GFE but like I said kind of just testing the water.

SummerSanders 1112 reads
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Thank you for everyone's input. Only in the essence of time, I have posted some semi grainy snapshots done a week or so ago from my IPhone. Nothing fancy. Full body shots and head shots. This will not be my final set of photos and will get professional ones done however for now, it is what it i!. And, it is me not some airbrushed, glamour shot :)

pimpfortheday 772 reads
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mrfisher 112 Reviews 632 reads
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curt23 13 Reviews 786 reads
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That is a lot better, made me wish you were closer to my area. Candid can be great, make sure your  Iphone is set to its best resolution and take some more, If you post some less grainy pictures it will be even better. Professional pictures are OK, but groups of candid shots can give a better idea of who you are. I would imagine based on what you have posted and those pictures that it will not be too long before you have reviews linked to your name when you post.

SummerSanders 1376 reads
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Thank you Curt I appreciate it. I knew without decent pictures this would be a challenge - but hey ,it is all a learning experience. BTW, I travel ;)

SummerSanders 1131 reads
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Thanks and thanks for the advice. I'll get something fantastic up in a while...... or seemingly fantastic and you all can give me input again :)

Schneeky 9 Reviews 520 reads
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..And I ain't eeeeven gonna ask ya what ya do in "dem pits", man.  d;^D  Schneeks..

harborview 10 Reviews 644 reads
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I just looked at your pictures.   They are grainy, yes, but more than that, they are all basically the same view.  OK, you got nice boobs.   Show me something else.  Actually too many pictures are rear view only, so yours are a bit different.  Picts in a nice bikini set.  I am suspicious if none show tummy.  

The photo size is still marginal, improve the quality.  I don't feel the pictures need be explicit but I want to see a variety of pictures from different angles.  Different dress & undress.  Taken as a whole, the pictures should show most of you.  

With good quality digital cameras available now, even amatures can take great pictures.  Take a bunch ...  don't hesitate to delete the lesser shots.  Use the best.  

Best wishes

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