Hi, Newbie here. For those of you who aren't married or who have a separate place for your 'male activities', do you prefer outcalls? I have a separate pad in a different city and was wondering, 'if you had your own pad, would you still do incalls, or would you just do outcalls'?

Whichever feels most comfortable or convienent  to you. If you stick with a well reviewed provider you will be safe at either one.

I can't do outcalls at home anyway.  I do prefer going to her place, I think girls feel safer at their own place, even if it's a hotel room.

I have done some outcalls when traveling, but never at home.

Do what you feel safer with.

Swim

If it is LE, LE will very seldom go to a strange apartment or hotel room because they want to control the environment.

On the other hand, if you ask a stranger without a good strong record to come over to your house, you might be inviting trouble in terms of getting ripped off or even burglarized later.

The best way to avoid both problems is to see only well reviewed gals.

Outcall is safer for you, Incall is safer for her.

If you are concerned about other things like getting ripped off, than outcall to a hotel of your choosing is probably the safest.

LE will almost never (notice I said ALMOST) send a female officer into a situation where they don't have total control. There are exceptions of course, but they are rare.

OTOH many providers are leery of doing outcalls to hotels for the very same reason. Their chances of getting popped are much higher due to the ease of LE renting a couple of hotel rooms for a night in which to run a sting.

Personally I like outcalls, it lets me do what every man likes to do after sex. Eat a pizza and go to sleep. lol