i see this alot,, "open minded" fetish friendly" what does this usually mean, and is it an upsell discussed before hand. I even read reviews where the review says, "special requests" were taken care of. What would be an example of fetish,, or special request.

thks

If you like fetishes (ass worship, gs, cbt etc) she's okay with doing them for you. If there's an extra charge for it depends on the lady tbh.  IMO if I read a review mentioning special req it could something as tame as a req for her to wear a certain outfit or shoes.  Doesn't hurt to take a look at a ladies site to see if she explains if there are extra fees or not for fetishes. I will say most ladies would rather not discuss $$$ for services via phone, in person or email for obvious reasons.

Not trying to be a wise ass, but all these terms are really just marketing tools to get you interested and have you check her web site or call her or email her. What one provider considers fetish friendly may not be what another thinks.  Just like GFE and PSE.  You really need to read the juicy details of the reviews or read her web site to find out wha she really means and offers. Don't let the marketing buzz words be your guide in selecting an escort.

Someone may be fetish friendly, however, they may not be friendly to all fetishes. There are thousands of fetishes out there - too many to ever list on one person's website - let alone I'm sure people are thinking up new ones all the time! Also, many people use the term in an inaccurate way; for instance, I had a gentlemen tell me he was interested in lingerie, thigh highs and boots as that was his "fetish". That was something he liked, however, that is not a true fetish. There was a post quite a while ago on Erotic Hwy board by the LG who explained what the true definition of fetish is.

So not only will you have to determine what YOUR fetish is, then to make sure your visit goes as planned, you will need to find out if the provider you are wanting to see is open to THAT particular fetish. Reading reviews and websites can be a good way to find out those things. However, if you have a fetish that is not as popular as some, then you will want to have gone through the reference process before even attempting to discuss anything with the provider. Even then, if it often times not open for discussion!

Good Luck

Have fun and play safe

summer

And in many cases that is all it is designed to accomplish.  

However most reviews don't discuss any real fetishes or BDSM activities.  But this is NOT to say that many of the gals won't accomodate these requests.  

If you have an inclination and don't know what to call YOUR fetish, take a look at gals who truly are over on the "dark side" (BDSM sites).  And if you are seeing a typical GFE gal you can ask her if she will accomodate YOUR particular fetish.  But you would be better served to see her based on her current reviews (GFE) and at the end of your session tell her that you would like to do "name that fetish or BDSM activity".

I wouldn't recommend in an initial email/text/contact that you bring this up.  It may simply get you a non-response.

The provider is willing to shove a broomstick up your behind, drop a log or take a leak or puke on you if that's what floats your boat.