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hellowterhello 7 Reviews 1379 reads
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This was the second time to see a provider.  Set up a time at 5:30pm in a business/commerical area. I just arrived at the hotel around 5:32pm because of traffic delay (later she said that she did not get my txt about traffic thing). Then I text to ask for room number. Did not get any answer. Until 5:45pm I got into the room.  After the service was going on for 15 minutes (around 6:05pm), the provider said that the original appointment was from 5:30~6:30. no matter what, I had to leave at 6:30pm. She said that she had another appointment very soon..... Damn it. at 6:25pm, she stopped her service and said I had to leave... I felt that it is a big ripoff. How do you guys think? I asked her to wear black stockings... she showed up in naked legs....

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Sphinxnc1135 reads

If you didn't get into the room until 5:45 and she immediately hit you with the fact you needed to be gone at 6:30...   You should have left at 5:46 without dropping the donation.

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hellowterhello1038 reads

I did not notice the timing thing until the session was going on for 15 minutes. At around 6:05 pm, she said the session should end at 6:30pm.....

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hellowterhello1111 reads

The thing is that I do not have much experience and was too nice to her.
After the service was going on for 15 minutes, she said that the session had to end at 6:30pm.

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clarence371133 reads

she warned you as soon as you entered the room that your apt. would end at 630. She did exactly what she said she would do. How is that a ripoff? You could have walked away when she told you that she could not extend the length of your time because she had another date booked.

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hellowterhello1003 reads

Actually no.

She told me that the session had to end at 6:30pm after the session was going on for 15 minutes.
 

Posted By: clarence37
she warned you as soon as you entered the room that your apt. would end at 630. She did exactly what she said she would do. How is that a ripoff? You could have walked away when she told you that she could not extend the length of your time because she had another date booked.

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clarence371031 reads

You have modified your original post, where it was not clear that the 545 start time was partially her fault.

So now, it really just becomes a newbie education issue. I stand by my original post, she did not rip you off, she simply did not perform up to "maximum GFE level" :-)

A "small time" provider, as I like to think of them, advertises on backpage, has no website and no reviews, never turns down an appointment and therefore often books them back-to-back when she can get them. If she lets your date go over time, she might lose the next guy... and she certainly won't have time to shower in between. You want to be that second guy?

A high quality provider will cut you some slack on your appointment time; she won't watch the clock, she won't freak if the session goes a little bit over, and she won't START the clock until you arrive and are ready to go. She won't be scheduling appointments back-to-back, so she won't need to rush you.

That provider, you will rarely find on backpage unless BP is only a secondary advertising site for her. That provider will be charging significantly more than the bare minimum for her time. That provider (unless she is very new) will have multiple reviews here on TER telling you in detail all the wonderful things you can expect.

You have only one review under your name, and it can't be found, so I guess she's been delisted. We have no way of knowing what kind of research you did to find this girl, but here is my guess: backpage (or other local adult site) ad, no reviews, and 200/hr or less. Am I right?

You are a TER member. Use this site for all it has to offer and you will increase the quality of your dates X100

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hellowterhello702 reads

(1) She has TER profiles here.

(2)she has P411 ACCOUNT.

(3) the service is $400/hour

(4) she is associated with an agent

(5) her score on her TER is super high (appearance:9+, performance:9+). Her 10+ reviews all from Jan to Mar in 2013.

(6)To be honest, I have to say she was stunningly beautiful,  perfect at BJ, and very cooperative in her service.
 

Posted By: clarence37
You have modified your original post, where it was not clear that the 545 start time was partially her fault.  
   
 So now, it really just becomes a newbie education issue. I stand by my original post, she did not rip you off, she simply did not perform up to "maximum GFE level" :-)  
   
 A "small time" provider, as I like to think of them, advertises on backpage, has no website and no reviews, never turns down an appointment and therefore often books them back-to-back when she can get them. If she lets your date go over time, she might lose the next guy... and she certainly won't have time to shower in between. You want to be that second guy?  
   
 A high quality provider will cut you some slack on your appointment time; she won't watch the clock, she won't freak if the session goes a little bit over, and she won't START the clock until you arrive and are ready to go. She won't be scheduling appointments back-to-back, so she won't need to rush you.  
   
 That provider, you will rarely find on backpage unless BP is only a secondary advertising site for her. That provider will be charging significantly more than the bare minimum for her time. That provider (unless she is very new) will have multiple reviews here on TER telling you in detail all the wonderful things you can expect.  
   
 You have only one review under your name, and it can't be found, so I guess she's been delisted. We have no way of knowing what kind of research you did to find this girl, but here is my guess: backpage (or other local adult site) ad, no reviews, and 200/hr or less. Am I right?  
   
 You are a TER member. Use this site for all it has to offer and you will increase the quality of your dates X100.  
   
 

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hellowterhello1011 reads

I also text her that I may be late due to traffic on my way..

Posted By: clarence37
she warned you as soon as you entered the room that your apt. would end at 630. She did exactly what she said she would do. How is that a ripoff? You could have walked away when she told you that she could not extend the length of your time because she had another date booked.

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Sphinxnc924 reads

until 5:45 is a major problem.

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rusty6721895 reads

I understand his reaction and expectation of a newbie not being met when I had a similar experience which I took personally then later realized it in hindsight.

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hellowterhello883 reads

yes, I may be a little bit personal now. This why I started a discussion here. Also, I would like to critically state what happened as a fact so that experienced guys could have their thoughts on this thing.

Thank you all for posting.

Posted By: rusty6721
I understand his reaction and expectation of a newbie not being met when I had a similar experience which I took personally then later realized it in hindsight.

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rusty6721891 reads

Just to give you an idea of how personal-I was all ready to give it up completely until my mood subsided. lol

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randomdeebag868 reads

Well, the fact that she didn't get back to him until 5:45 is what I see to be his source of frustration here.

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2hot4u2812 reads

That before you hand over your hard earned money to verify.Don't assume that she remembers you...don't assume that if she accepts the amount for an hour (even tho your session starts 15 minutes late) that her schedule is open.Don't assume... but I will say this stopping a session 5 minutes early gives a great indicator as to the kind of provider you saw.
A rip off? Not even close sir.I've had a few of those and that is reserved for those that provide no service , typically a snatch & dash or the provider refuses to perform acts associated with F/s.(if that is what you payed for)
What you should do, is write the review and honestly state the situation and deduct on her performance rating.

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September24954 reads

and she then took 15 minutes to text you her room number, leaving only 45 minutes for your session, then yes, you kind of got ripped off.  If something like that ever happens again, you'll know whether to clarify up front whether she has an hour for you from the time you get to the room.  If she says no, then you're free to leave without dropping the donation.

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HobbyCity1011 reads

Look for the more GFE friendly girls next time.

Also, how about writing a review and inform other guys of your experience with her.

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HavingFunInOC881 reads

I don't know why girls think it's ok to make us wait a half hr before texting us the room number but expect us to be there on time.  95% of the time, i will be prompt.  The other 5% is due to traffic and other unforseen issues. I'd say 50% of the time I'm kept waiting from 10-30 minutes.  

Yes, you were ripped off

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LovetoDaty897 reads

Give the lady her proper due on her physical "Appearance" mark her according to her beauty score. but then mark her Performance score appropriately based on your experience. In the details mention that she was not accomodating about the time; you may even want to say she is a "clock-watcher" Just my 2 cents.

It's really not aceptable on her part - not even a "sorry babe, I'll make it up to you next time"???

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PumpedRidenRough746 reads

She didn't rip you off... but she is a clock watcher. She also books appts one after another! If you had already confirmed the appt prior (she knew you were coming) and you updated her about traffic, she could have been more understanding. Sounds like she would have had an issue if you came early too.  

Rarely is anyone right on time (sometimes a little early or a little late). 2 mins is not a big deal. Maybe she didn't get back to you for 15 mins because she was busy on the phone setting up other stuff. That is her problem.  

I'd write a review and be honest on it, because she did have the session but it was a matter of her not giving you the information on time. 2 mins? REALLY? That's not late at all.

Sorry but I think it is not good practice to schedule right after another. Sometimes I may run over. To book right after is being a clock watcher because regardless she would have watched the clock to get you out before the next guy comes. Plus she even ended it earlier than your appt time!!!

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hellowterhello764 reads

Her service is  $400/hour with an agent.....
 

Posted By: PumpedRidenRough
She didn't rip you off... but she is a clock watcher. She also books appts one after another! If you had already confirmed the appt prior (she knew you were coming) and you updated her about traffic, she could have been more understanding. Sounds like she would have had an issue if you came early too.  
   
 Rarely is anyone right on time (sometimes a little early or a little late). 2 mins is not a big deal. Maybe she didn't get back to you for 15 mins because she was busy on the phone setting up other stuff. That is her problem.  
   
 I'd write a review and be honest on it, because she did have the session but it was a matter of her not giving you the information on time. 2 mins? REALLY? That's not late at all.  
   
 Sorry but I think it is not good practice to schedule right after another. Sometimes I may run over. To book right after is being a clock watcher because regardless she would have watched the clock to get you out before the next guy comes. Plus she even ended it earlier than your appt time!!!

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macdaddy1944972 reads

no big deal..you simply got the Alacarte version..

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Bostonguy57950 reads

You scheduled for a certain time and, traffic or not, it's your responsibility to be on time. Why would you assume that you could show up late and still get your full hour?  

If you want a provider to wear black stockings bring her a pair as a gift and ask her to put them on.

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hellowterhello825 reads

(1) she only provided her address about half an hour before the starting time. even I asked at least one hour ahead of the starting time.
(2) I text her if she had the stockings in her incall place. She said she had and would wear it for me.

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BossMonger895 reads

If you got off, then this lesson wasn't a total loss.  

Yeah, you only got 3/4 of your time but just chalk it up to a learning experience.  

Not really a ripoff but you'll just have to be more careful who you see.

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hellowterhello908 reads

I totally agree.

This is definitely a learning process. I have gained experience from this appointment.

Be sure all things to be clear before service.
 

Posted By: BossMonger
If you got off, then this lesson wasn't a total loss.  
   
 Yeah, you only got 3/4 of your time but just chalk it up to a learning experience.  
   
 Not really a ripoff but you'll just have to be more careful who you see.

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Posted By: hellowterhello
This was the second time to see a provider.  Set up a time at 5:30pm in a business/commerical area. I just arrived at the hotel around 5:32pm because of traffic delay (later she said that she did not get my txt about traffic thing). Then I text to ask for room number. Did not get any answer. Until 5:45pm I got into the room.  After the service was going on for 15 minutes (around 6:05pm), the provider said that the original appointment was from 5:30~6:30. no matter what, I had to leave at 6:30pm. She said that she had another appointment very soon..... Damn it. at 6:25pm, she stopped her service and said I had to leave... I felt that it is a big ripoff. How do you guys think? I asked her to wear black stockings... she showed up in naked legs....  

-- Modified on 4/6/2013 6:29:29 PM

If you got to the hotel at 5:32, even if your the Flash, assume it took you a minute or 2 to compose and send the email, and then the internet/carrier often takes a few minutes to transmit, she receives, composes a reply and then a few more minutes back to you, then you enter the hotel, elevator/walk to room - everything probably went about as smoothly as it could have - I think you have to assume that if you schedule a set time, that's the time, - realistically, most providers have multiple appointments and you should not assume she is free the time following the scheduled appointment. If you want the full hour and your late, you should have inquired about it before you went up.

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