I'm new to the hobby - been with 3 providers over the past 2 months. In each case, we met at my hotel where I travel for business.  I stay at upscale hotels (i.e. Marriott) and it has worked well.

However, I have a provider I'd like to see and she only does incall at a hotel.  My question is if I already have an upscale hotel, why meet at another one?  And, who pays for the hotel?  Am I expected to pay over and above the standard fees?

Some ladies have an incall establishment that they rent for the week, month, etc. and they fill it with items that they are comfortable with and make it homey.  If she is touring then it is easier for her to have one set location and have her friends come to her.... in any case she takes care of the room and your donantion remains the same, some ladies have a discount for incall beacuse they don't have to do any of the traveling .... hope this helps.

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Thanks for the info.  As it turns out, I suggested she come to my hotel and she agreed and gave me a special deal for a 2 hour session.  I guess she saved the hotel expense and passed it on!!

happy guy ..who was she and how much$ for 2 hours?