It can be a trade off. Some ladies actually have different rates for incall and outcall. Some charge more for incall and some the reverse. Usually the extra charge for incall means that the lady will be paying for a hotel room, but not always. Providers usually have a preference one way or another, simply ask if they haven't indicated it on their site.

Personally I prefer incall. Most of the ladies that do incall seem to be more comfortabel and less nervous when they are on their home ground. Incall is not always where the ladies live, somtimes they have a place for sessions and girls have been known to share a location.

When a lady insists on outcall, I find it more convenient to meet at a nearby hotel. Keeps my business private from the neighbors and the place I go to has a hot tub in each room, relaxing. There are a few providers that will not go to hotels/motels, due to fear of running into a Police sting operation. When setting the appointment I always ask if they are comfortabel meeting at a hotel, saves hassles.

Primarily because I like the power and convenience of knowing that I can just walk away if something doesn't seem right.

In my area, Outcalls are more expensive than Incalls, because traveling is time consuming and frustrating. The lady would rather put herself up in a hotel room and relax while the gentlemen deal with traffic and come to them.

I don't like going to the trouble and expense of setting up a location, particularly since it is never less expensive to see her at her place, and often it's more expensive.

Incall, by definition, means “her place.” She provides the room. Even if it’s a hotel room, she is paying for it, unless there is some prior discussion where she says, “I can set up the room, but I’ll need you to pay for it.”