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SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 523 reads
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I request a deposit for travel. You can always let her know your flight number and make arrangements to arrive in the destination airport around the same time. I have done it many, many times. I always required deposits for overnight and longer engagements, and never had a problem with booking flights that matched my companion's. I have had some issues with delayed flights and one cancelled flight (I hate JFK in the winter!!), but generally speaking we always end up at the right place at the right time. :)

Only a very very few of my friends are privy to my real name and information. And in all cases I have known them literally for years.

earthshined1869 reads

I would assume for a travel date/appointment she would give me her name?

I mean, to book the flight, or would she rather pay and get reimbursed???

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perfectstorm741 reads

Some will give you their info to book travel for them, but usually only after you have known her for a while and have had several dates and a level of trust. Most ladies will just ask you for a deposit (by moneypak or some other anonymous form) and book their own travel, thus remaining anonymous.
Rarely will any of them pay for all their own expenses up front and wait for reimbursement.

If you are considering paying for a ladys travel, you will have to work it out with the speicfic lady. There is not a one size fits all answer.

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earthshined431 reads

makes sense for her not to pay all expenses up front but i'm thinking maybe only for the plane ticket if she didnt want to give her name.
I have seen her before.
The problem with her booking her own flight is the syncing departure/ arrival.( We'd be meeting in a different city)Obviuosly, there are details to discuss with her first.  

Posted By: perfectstorm
Some will give you their info to book travel for them, but usually only after you have known her for a while and have had several dates and a level of trust. Most ladies will just ask you for a deposit (by moneypak or some other anonymous form) and book their own travel, thus remaining anonymous.
Rarely will any of them pay for all their own expenses up front and wait for reimbursement.

If you are considering paying for a ladys travel, you will have to work it out with the speicfic lady. There is not a one size fits all answer.

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hiddenhills524 reads

when it comes to hobbying.  Ask her and she'll tell you how to proceed.

Posted By: earthshined
I would assume for a travel date/appointment she would give me her name?

I mean, to book the flight, or would she rather pay and get reimbursed???

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perfectstorm441 reads

And used both of the ways I mentioned. Sent a greendot moneypak deposit to a lady to book her own stuff. Obviously I trustrd her, or I wouldn't send the deposit.

I have also booked flights and hotels for providers using their real names. (after multiple visits and a lot of trust on both sides)

The lady you are seeing will probably have her own ideas of how she wants to do it.

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SoftlySarah524 reads

I request a deposit for travel. You can always let her know your flight number and make arrangements to arrive in the destination airport around the same time. I have done it many, many times. I always required deposits for overnight and longer engagements, and never had a problem with booking flights that matched my companion's. I have had some issues with delayed flights and one cancelled flight (I hate JFK in the winter!!), but generally speaking we always end up at the right place at the right time. :)

Only a very very few of my friends are privy to my real name and information. And in all cases I have known them literally for years.

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AllyMoore487 reads

Its really not that big of a deal.

He knows you and you know him.

For the hourly client, not so much.  
But if I am comfortable and confident to travel across state lines or abroad with a client then I'm perfectly okay with him knowing my legal name.
When I've agreed to that sort of appointment I am familiar with him or very confident in my screening (and I've done both- traveled with years long clients and brand new clients).

Just my thoughts.

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London Rayne527 reads

OTOH, I have also never just hopped on a plane to meet some new guy without knowing him, prior to that. I would imagine for extended days, and weeks especially outside of the U.S. you would need to have a rapport, and trust already established. If not, would never do it. For medical reasons (in case something happens to either of you), real names are disclosed now and again. It is not a must, though in every case. My sugar daddy knows my full name, where I live, and just about every other detail about my life, but my clients only know my first name.

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earthshined417 reads

with flight delays or other problems?

the the thing is she would have to book the same flight I did.For example, on a 12 hr date, if either one of us arrives late it  could cause problems.

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