In a nutshell, after you've visited a lady, you may request for her to add her name to your whitelist, which is intended to be a list of providers that could vouch for you. You could use this list as a way to get verified by other providers. Some providers may require a whitelist for screening but many (IMO) do not.  

I've included a link to the whole FAQ on TER as well. It's worth a read.  

Good Luck!

contact her, if she's a TER member and it was fairly recent when you saw her, and ask her if she would give you a White List referral.  Just because you reviewed her doesn't mean she's a member, it just means she has a profile on site.  Previous poster told you what it is.

Also suggest you read the self help center.

Swim