Hi there. Is there a preference over incall vs. outcall for hobbyists? Thanks. ~giamarie

Incall everytime. Takes less time for me with no paper trail of where I've been. Plus I feel the lady is less vunerable.

I would have thought hobbyist would prefer a provider coming to them (outcall)! So, this is good to know. Thanks!

but most of my hobbying is done in two locations, both of which are not conducive to outcall.

You have to figure out your client base...are you seeing out of towners who are already at hotels that want you to come to them, or are you seeing locals and day-trippers who will want to come to you?

Also, if the weather where you are may dictate that many will not want to venture out, but rather have you come to them if possible.

You may want to pose this same question on your local regional board.

JMTC

I'm in the midst of relocating my base of operations from Tampa to lower Fairfield Co. CT. I haven't had a real incall for sometime as I've been touring most of the last 3 years.

I much prefer having an incall where I can be surrounded by the things I love that are beautiful, sensual and pampering. You are correct, I am more comfortable and feel safer there. Plus, I can offer that top shelf bar and nibbles for my guys.

However, I am also going to be offering outcall there and to Metropolitan NYC and surrounding areas. Any are a short hop away, by train or car. I've given it all a lot of thought and research.

It was most helpful to hear your thoughts on both. It's going to take a lot of creativity and extra special service to keep business going during these difficult times. Any tips any of you have are most helpful.

Smiles,
Anneke

...yes, most local gentleman prefer incall. Many of them are married or live with a SO and can't host, and either don't want to pay for a hotel or have concerns about creating a paper trail.

However, a large percentage of my clients travel to my city for business, so they already have a hotel room. They'd prefer to stay in instead of having to navigate an unfamiliar area and then drive back to their hotel. For them it's an issue of their own comfort and time.

I do have plenty of local gentlemen who see me and are able to secure a room for us, of course. It will likely cut down on your volume, so that's something to keep in mind if it will conflict with your goals.

While I am not married, I cannot do outcall.  I, like others, feel that the lady I am visiting is more comfortable in her own place, surrounded by her own things.

Swim

Almost all of my dates are when I'm travelling. I rarely play close to home. I do enjoy hosting, and most of my dates are dinner dates. I like to have some candles and nice music, which I always bring with me. Couple this with the fact that I'm an American male which means two things...I get lost easily and I don't ask for directions. That would make me late for every date in a strange city. I don't mind incall at all, but most of my dates have been outcall.

Ummm. I guess that is incall for me.

When I'm traveling, I still prefer incall (but maybe I'm unique ' ). And, I wonder, how many ladies depend primarily on travelers to their city for their business, or put another way, whether a lady may have a successful business (depends on the volume level she's comfortable with I suppose) without having a flow of local customers, and, hopefully, regulars....  bottom line: why not offer primarily incall (our outcall if you prefer), without excluding the other possibility?  Even though I totally prefer incall, I have spent some pleasant time with ladies who do outcall. Either she or I have simply arranged an hotel accomodation...  Cheers - Gregory

I actually vastly prefer outcall, for a few reasons:

1. I have more time to focus on making myself presentable, rather than my house! (or hotel, etc.)

2. I know where you live, or at least what hotel room you're staying at (which is theoretically identifying) which provides a layer of protection, real or not, to my physical safety.

3. You don't know where I live, what hotel I'm staying at, etc.

4. Although this has never happened, if I get a "bad vibe" for whatever reason, it's much easier to leave (or not to go) than to make you leave or keep you away.

5. Any "comfort" I'd gain by being in my own environment is far, FAR, outweighed by the fact that you're now in my personal space. If I'm in a hotel, obviously, this makes no difference.

6. Travel time is relaxing and gives me a chance to mentally prep (and let the curlers set if I'm in a curly mood!)

7. Gentlemen who want the convenience of you coming to them (or go through with renting a hotel room) tend to be better off. Yes, there are exceptions to this, but in general, it's true.

8. What can I say -- some of my best encounters have been with traveling businessmen

Where I am, most reputable providers don't even offer incall. I prefer they come to my house anyway, so it works out well.

Adding to your list, LE would never run a sting out of a private residence.

through a city and don't have a hotel room available to host.

Incall in my home area, and outcall if I'm traveling.

I prefer incall, expept with my atf who will come to my home.  You might do a search using the words incall and outcall.  There is a search funtion above, on the main  newbie page.This  will let you look for more info on this subject.

I have done both, and have either had outcall to a room that I rented or sometimes to my home. I prefer outcall because it makes me feel more comfortable, I guess I fear what I may be walking in to with incall.

Honestly, I have never had a problem with either when visiting well reviewed ladies.

Research:Know your provider!!!!!

I have to agree with VanyaDivine on every single point that she has made.  

And traveling businessmen staying in NYC (especially Midtown) hotels do tend to be great dates.

Lina

Never been shot, but the lady has threatened to out clients, including me.