Newbie - FAQ

I'm not really a newbie, but....
joecollege001 2129 reads
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I indulge in the hobby a few times a year.  I have never had the pleasure of finishing off a session with a provider on or in her mouth/face.
How/when do I bring this up if it's something I'd really like to do or if it is on her menu or not?
Thanks for the help...looking forward to it.

You could just ask when you call to inquire about a meeting so you will know if you want to get together or not. You could check reviews but they don't tell you everything.

I wouldn't ask her this question when I called to inquire about a meeting.  Most ladies prefer not to discuss services at this point with someone they haven't seen. Asking about specific acts over the phone will greatly diminish your chances of seeing most quality providers.

TER allows you to do a search for providers who offer certain services, including this one.  So the best course of action is to do a search, read reviews and pick a provider who offers this service.

graydon3545 reads

SierraMarie has given you bad advice.  Most upscale providers would hang up the phone or delete such an email.  CIM is often YMMV, but you will know if it is on the menu from getting VIP membership and carefully reading reviews and provider profiles.

so you can read the juicy details and also so you can PM other hobbyists who have seen the lady.  

Otherwise, when you are beginning the action and the lady says "now, what do you like?" or "how do you want to finish?" you can make your request known.

When you're completing the Contact form on the lady's website, that's usually what the big Message space is for. You tell her what you want, she has the choice of moving forward or not. This way, you show her that you're not wasting her time by sending random emails asking for it, and you don't get your time wasted setting the appointment and have not expressed your interests.

shudaknownbetter1081 reads

then when your both naked in bed, whisper it...  
skb

Many gals will offer "off the menu" items to regulars, especially if you both really like each other.  (Which is usually the way it is with regulars because why else would they become regulars?)

After several sessions and things are going well, gently hint at how you would be interested in some kind of activity such as you suggest.  You can say something like you were watching some porn the other day where a guy shot his wad all over a gal's face and thought it was really hot.  Unless she is really touchy about this (And some gals are.) there's an excellent chance that she will offer this to you.  (A nice tip afterwards is a way to ensure that this will stay on your menu also.)

Note:  Do not mention these things in your review unless you never want to see her again.

Now, if you brought this up on your first date, you would be almost 100% assured of being rejected, and that rejection will pretty much queer you from bringing it up again.  (It might also put a general damper on what might have otherwise been a nice session.)

So, follow the above advice.  It's certainly not a 100% guarantee to success, but it works enough to make it very appealing.

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