Hey all... I officially joined yesterday and had my first experience yesterday (review soon to come).  

Anyway, I've been doing a ton of researching on here to find my next one.  I'm sorry to ask such 101 type questions, but I just want to be aware of what I'm getting into.  I have been reading a bunch of these newbie topics and didn't find all my answers.  So....

I've seen a bunch of people that get bbbj and/or girls that do cim... or people daty... among other things that I would normally consider "unsafe".  Am I wrong in that?  I would assume that there is an associated risk everyone is taking, but is it safer than I may perceive?  It seems one of the only things that is considered unsafe is bbfs.  Do providers generally get tested often?

I'm a young guy just out of a LONG relationship and I want to have some fun out.  I'm not trying to be completely paranoid, but I do want to be aware of what my associated risk is.  Google has given me an idea of it, but I'd love to hear from you guys with a lot of experience.

I truly appreciate any and all information you guys have for me.

Thanks for reading!