I am brand new to this, how can I indulge without any refrences and can I use hotel number to contact. Or is it easier to use a cell.

Usually hotels charge you a lot per call,even if it's a local call.If you don't score on your first few calls,it can get expensive for you.Also,if you're out of your room when she calls,then it'll cost you again to contact her.Use the cell phone.Also,not every provider needs references,some just need you to furnish a photo I.D.and maybe a business card or proof of employment.Good luck!

The whole idea behind "references" is your accountabillity. Until you have seen ladies who can vouch to other ladies that you are not LE or a psychopath you have to be forthright in your identification processes. Hotel room numbers, pay-phones and caller ID blocked phones offer stealth annonymity unacceptable when no other form of reference or verification is available.