Im a newbie and in the process of setting up a erotic massage to start things off......my question is......i have been in contact with two different providers....one has 7 reviews and a little of a wait but seems good.....the other has no reviews and keeps texting me and calling to set up an appointment.....it seems like a lil of a red flag that she keeps calling me and texting me....idk......any thoughts???? Red flag or an i just over reacting??

See a Full service provider with 8 + reviews by reviewers  with more than a few reviews. Do NOT see anyone as a Newbie  that has no, or few reviews.

Go get LAID my friend. Screw the massage. A good provider will give you a massage after your 1st pop if you want anyway.

Happy Hobbying !

then that can be a bad sign.

At best it's crossing boundaries.  At worst, it could be jail bait.

Sometimes a massage and a happy ending is just the thing to hit the spot.

Not every meal has to be a 7 course dinner.

I just had a wonderful newbie experience with a well-reviewed provider that consisted of intimate massage with release.  It seemed a safe way to get into the hobby and went a long way to calming my newbie jitters.  Review to follow shortly.
-RVW

for awhile. I'm goimg to try a massage/FS once to see if me likey.

The texting isn't always bad;the frequency here is what is bothersome. Stay away from few reviews for awhile.

Indeed a Red Flag.  Any stalkerish activity from a lady shouldn't happen.  If someone wishes to set up an appointment with me and I don't hear back, I may send out one follow up email and that's that.  But texting and calling incessantly is rude.  What if you have an SO and she sees this?  I'd stay away from that one.

I think a massage girl can be great!  I am one, of course.  One time I saw a client and all he kept telling me was that he couldn't believe how sexy and intimate our session was, and he said it was BETTER than FS.   Sometimes, a massage could be just what a man needs.  But, let him get that massage and find out for himself.  

I would discontinue any contact with the crazy stalker massage girl! I would never initiate contact or hound someone to meet with them. That is the equivalent of a McDonald's employee chasing you down the street begging you to buy a Big Mac! Very weird! Follow your own instincts and you should be fine.
xoxo,
Sierra

you'll be so relaxed after the first pop, you won't need a massage.  Hell sometimes I have trouble just trying to walk.  Go Full Service!