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If it's on her menu, absolutely.
inicky46 61 Reviews 1241 reads
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There have been many discussions you can find on this site (try "search" function) and there are STD risks, but based on what people say on the discussion boards, many people do it.  You can find out if it's on a provider's menu by reading her reviews.

danbo20002878 reads

Hi guys, completely new to this and have a question. Is it considered acceptable to go down on a  provider? Is this an odd request? I know what I like historically, just don't know if its acceptable in this new realm. Thanks

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inicky461242 reads

There have been many discussions you can find on this site (try "search" function) and there are STD risks, but based on what people say on the discussion boards, many people do it.  You can find out if it's on a provider's menu by reading her reviews.

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ziggy4401303 reads

If you have VIP status, you will see a little box that tells you whether you can visit the little box, DATY - yes or no.

Some providers do not accept DATY, some do, some do not accept FIV, many do. Some list such services on their web sites, but the easiest way to know is by checking the providers' profiles and reviews here.

Many of us love DATY, and will only choose providers who will indulge us. Count me in that camp.

What could be better?

If you need help with any of the acronyms, check the FAQs or the urban dictionary web site.

Funny anecdote - was recently with a provider, we had a wonderful, wonderful time and were visiting. Somehow the discussion went to reviews, listings and such - I think because her profile said she did not like FIV, but she sure seemed to like it that day, and I was asking whether she wanted that stated, corrected or whatever. Seemed quite happy with DATY, too, but would only give a (perfectly marvelous) CBJ, thus the tale. Some guy had called her up to inquire about meeting, apparently wanted to assure he would get a BBBJ, and she said no. It probably was not going too well up to that point, but he decided to end it by explaining that guys in our town demanded their rights and there was no way in hell she would ever have the pleasure of DATY, offering just a CBJ in return.

In the context, having had a great old time with just that exchange - CBJ for DATY (and I won twice!!), we both shared a laugh.

Enjoy.

Zig

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danbo2000915 reads

Wheww!!! thanks, like I said, I'm brand new to this and wasn't sure of the protocal. Should be putting up my own reviews shortly :).

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mrfisher2447 reads

I can count on my hands the number that didn't seem to like DATY.

Don your diving mask and jump in.

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mrfisher1184 reads

We can only know what "seems" to be so.  We'll never know for sure.

I'm satisfied living in a world like that.

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ziggy4402237 reads

If they tell me one thing, a nice thing, to my face but say something else behind my back, my standard reply is simply "Thank you for your consideration." It took me a long time to learn to accept a compliment without question, but it was a very good thing to learn. And if someone asks me, "Don't you want to know what they really think?," my answer is "Not unless they want to tell me." I understand that a lot of people go out of their way to find out things to make them unhappy, I just do not understand why.

This does not just apply to the hobby, either.

I find it a little disappointing when a woman who told me she had three orgasms the first time we met later shares that she never O's with a client, but still loves sex. What to believe? But I can get past that, too, if I am having a good time. In fact I have. Lose a little fantasy, gain a little intimacy - it's a tradeoff. And I sure find this a happier world when dealing with people who say different things about the same situation, if I choose the answer I like best. Honestly, there are times when I need to know the truth, but for heavens sake, this is, to quote myself, asbo-f'ing-lutely not one of those. Quite the contrary, this is fairy tale land, or some kind of even better tail.

Zig

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swimtrekr908 reads

never heard a complaint.  In fact, if I can't dine on her, I'm not likely to see her.  While it's not a deal-breaker, I would be very disappointed if I could not DATY.....

Swim

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Opulent57944 reads

Ahhhh yeah, you da man!

-- Modified on 3/15/2011 5:10:01 PM

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Solange-1762 reads

MANY clients partake in such activities with no qualms about it whatsoever, if that's what you're asking by it being "acceptable". Then again, some ladies will only allow some gentlemen to go downtown. Even if it's listed on her menu, it will always be ymmv.

If you both agree to it, forget what anybody else thinks.

HTH

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Opulent57758 reads

If she likes it, you'll adore it!!!

Being a newbie, I cherish it!! You'd be surprised at most men won't even DATY and are not clients!! Yet these same selfish folks (for lack of a better word) want the lady to give him brain (not the gray stuff).

So if she had no objections, plunge into the depths of womanhood, one lick at a time!!

-- Modified on 3/15/2011 5:09:22 PM

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Travini1013 reads

Its actually a normal service that almost all girls provide with no extra charge. Commonly called dining at the Y. You will frequently see it in ads.
Some girls do not allow it at all.
Some girls (strangely enough) do allow it, but charge a little extra. I never see girls like that.
To me full service should be a flat rate and include all forms of oral.

Also, I dont think you can get a special rate with a girl if this is all you want to do. I wouldnt waste time asking about it.

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