Newbie - FAQ
If it walks like a duck, it quacks like a duck...it's a duck!! (EOM)
Some of the ads on backpages looks great. But, how to avoid ripoffs? Most providers have no reviews.
move on. I have seen SOOOOO many hot-looking girls on BP it makes me sick. However, my rule is, and you should do same, if she has no reviews, somewhere, no visit!!!!!!
DO YOUR RESEARCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Swim
backpage.com is riddled with come-ons and ripoffs..you never know what you will get on there..try eros.com or preferred411 if you want to meet providers who are attractive and reliable..take swims advice..look before you leap..
If they look very tan, incrediby beautiful, and have very smooth skin, they are either rip-offs or look so different than the pics you wish they were!
If they claim to be 21 and blonde, they may actually look like that, but they are either rip-offs, or maybe permit the main event but no GFE and are clearly very inexperienced and into the money but not the action.
I TOFTT too much and when I do it based on a BP page, I figure it might be like taking a couple hundred bucks or more, holding it up, and putting a match to it. Easy come, easy go.
No, really - if they look like a model AND show face shots, they are either a rip-off actionwise, or they look nothing like the pics (I consider that a rip-off).
While it is possible to not get any hits using these image verification sites, you'll find many pictures used on BP are stolen. However, remember it's not where you find a provider you'd like to see, it's what you do with the info in the ad. Google the ph#, check here for reviews, etc.
Great idea. Just got an unexpected result. I used Google "Search by image" on a provider's pic, which had her head cropped out. The search results showed one picture with the FULL version on some weird site that didn't exist any more. So now I have a face pic, which was the last piece of info I needed - she is beautiful all around!
Stolen pics by themselves are not necessarily a dealbreaker for me. Camera pics look cheesy and ghetto, but professional shots are expensive - really expensive. And if I was a provider I wouldn't put my real picture on the internet, so I don't blame a girl for not wanting to do that.
I have had good sessions with girls with stolen pics. As long as she bears a resemblance to the pic (weight, hair, looks) than I'll go forward with the session. If the ad has pics of a bikini babe or cover model, and you live in Nebraska, you KNOW that girl isn't going to open the door. Be smart.
Backpage is my number one source for finding providers, especially when I travel. I tend to be spontaneous in my hobbying - when I'm horny I'm horny NOW, not next week. Girls on Eros/TER are sometimes unavailable for same-day sessions, whereas BP tends to be much more flexible.
As a newbie you need to spend time on the BP site. It's an earned skill to be able to spot the ripoffs from the real postings, but over time you get good at it. Keep your hand off your d*ck while looking at the site helps you be objective.
Okay, I posted above about the 21-year olds on BP and I still believe it. But I have to say, my ATF advertised on BP (along with Eros and City Vibe though), but she was also 28 yrs old advertising and passing easily as 25, and she eschewed reviews - asked clients not to do them, and had them removed when they did anyway - and she is the most gorgeous, hottest, sexiest, nicest lady I've ever met in any of this. Maybe that's why I still TOFTT once in a while on BP, but not yet with anywhere similar results.
I like bp girls,it does require a lot of homework & time .But the rewards are imho well worth it.The gems I look for are newbies , first time posters and visiting girls.
It begins with phone contact, in my opinion if they are short on the phone they are gonna be rushing, look to the girls that giggle or answer your questions in extended ways.I Always say I'm not a police officer are you?( dont think it's legal but it puts girls at ease.)Call at times that are slow 10 am- 3pm or sundays.In many instances I have spoken to a girl for a year before seeing her,some I'm at their door within 30 minutes.
The rewards;I get to help those good providers,a few have spent the nite, a few have been nympho's, many have become friends of many years, an equal number opt not to do this and become UTR friends.
The bad;pimps have already gotten to some of them,some are not suited to do this or are being"coached" by older burnt out provider.
But the biggest problem with bp girls comes from the ter "old guard",the agencies & top $$ providers.I have been called a pimp(never taken 1 dollar from a girl),that I do this to get "free sessions "( I pay what her rate is.)So in short ,if you decide to go this route KEEP IT TO YOURSELF!!!
BP is also used by legitimate provides, especially by girls touring from other areas. If this is the case, you should find a link to her web site or her TER ID# in the ad. If not, heed the advice above.
I stick with those reviewed here or on GFE, to many worthless hours and donation with independents except a well know (very) few.
occurs frequently and you can find other threads by using the search function.
My rule is similar to Swim's, no reviews means to appointment.
Thanks for your comments. Greatly appreciated.
Swim
Hello, I have reviews on TER and backpage wont allow me to put a link on my ad that will show reviwews.
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