huh? Does the time we spend with clients exist in some sort of fourth dimension?

If we don't answer, it means we are BUSY. Chances are, we are seeing someone. If we aren't seeing someone we might be at the grocery store, the mall, running errands, visiting with friends, spending time with family, and all the other things that fill up a normal life.

Most of us also have enough brains not to call someone back an hour or two later because we have no idea what you might be doing. Maybe you aren't married, or have a job, but many men would prefer we NOT call them while they are in the car with their wife, or in a meeting with their boss. So generally, unless we are able to call you back within a few minutes, we don't return your call.

If you can't reach her by phone, there is a wonderful invention that came out a few years ago called electronic mail. Try that.

Some providers never answer their phone but will call back if you leave a message and didn't call from a blocked number.

Some providers will never call you back, you juat have to keep trying until they pick up.

You may be saying something in the message that is disturbing to her.

She may be on a break or retired.

when it is my first time calling them... I even left a message. Any thoughts?
Are they not doing it anymore?

They have lives, they have jobs, they families.  What did you say in your message. If you didn't let the lady know what hours you could take her return call, she probably won't your call. That's SOP for most escorts. Might I suggest you read the "self help center" back on the main 'newb" page. Upper right corner.  Then scroll back 4 or 5 pages of this board. Read all the posts. Finally learn you use the TER search feature. This questions has been asked numerous times before, albeit in different phrasing.

LMOM (Leave Message On Machine):

* First Name
* Last Name
* Phone Number you can be reached at
* Time you can be reached at said number (give a block, and for tomorrow too!)
* Day you would like to see her
* Time you would like to see her
* Do you want her to come to you, or do you want to go to her
* Phone number you can be reached at
* Time you can be reached at said number (give a block time, and give a block time for tomorrow too!)

(Yes, I repeated myself, ON PURPOSE!  You know how hard it is to write a phone number down as it's being read to you?)

If you are prescreened by a service, you might want to put that information in there as well.

Then again, I prefer to contact by email.  I can get the information out, I dont have to worry about the machine cutting me off, she can get the information when it is convenient and it is discrete (unlike speaking into a phone that can be over heard.)  My thoughts.

move on

Are we meant to be available 24-7 at the end of a phone?? Im certainly not. Im a busy young lady and if I don't answer the phone it's generally as im busy. If im on a date my phone is always on silent (common courtesy) same goes if i am with friends or family.... If the lady you contacted didn't gt back to you maybe she hadn't received your message by the time you'd already written her off but contacting someone once and then asking why they're not returning your call or for somebody to brand then as not worth it.. REALLY!!!! it's insulting because if any  professional lady is worth her salt she definetely wouldn't be sitting around waiting for the phone to ring because we're working hard, playing hard and taking some well deserved rest at times too. Maybe it would be an idea for voicemails to indicate if it's a longer period thats she's going to be uncontactable but if you want to see a lady badly enough and she's worth it then you'll wait... you know how the saying goes. "Good things come to those who wait" and from what i've read on this board reviews are a good indicator of wether she's worth the wait or a time waster indeed (says me who is new in the country and board and has no reviews as yet LOL)

Casey xx

-- Modified on 5/18/2011 6:19:04 PM

very well said..   like me i have a life away from being a provider, i have a job i work at.. i got older kids and a dog i deal with, ..  i cant always return a call as i might be intruding in on your time, when you are with your spouse or partner..  

some providers like me, rely on email ..

IndianaProvider
not vip dont message me