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18 yr old on to college
sosboss 4548 reads
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1 / 10

Im going to college next year and dont want to go a virgin!!! is it weird that i want an escort? do escorts even like dealing with people my age?

BoyToy4U 40 Reviews 980 reads
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2 / 10

As far as age goes around here, Im one of the younger ones here myself.  Im 22.  Im sure you can find a lady to see you.  

Do your homework and maybe go for a more mature provider who can show you a few things.

Good Luck!  Have Fun!

ShakingtheSheets 189 Reviews 1539 reads
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3 / 10


Look, I know you are anxious to get laid. But seeing an escort for the sole purpose of loosing your virginity prior to going off to college is a HUGE MISTAKE.

Trust me, college will be an open door of sexual activity. I don't care how you look, how overweight and sloppily fat you may be, how many pimples cover your face, or how socially inept you come across to others, ANYBODY (let me repeat that: ANYBODY) can get laid in college. It won't be rocket science. Go to the weekly frat parties on Friday and Saturday evening. Go to the dormitory parties held nightly. Go to the local college bar that looks the other way and allows underage drinking (not that hard to find). Trust me; you attend enough of these events, YOU WILL GET LAID. You will NOT be masturbating forever. Both college men and women are ALL looking to get laid and explore their developing sexuality. For heaven's sake, you should even be able to even get the occasional hand job/ or blow job in the restroom. EVERYBODY is horny and looking for sex. Seriously, getting laid in college should be as easy as passing your classes.  

Second, I'll assume that you are not independently wealthy and you do not have a trust fund to utilize. From an economic standpoint, seeing a provider is a complete waste of mommy and daddy's money. Let me warn you that hobbying is addictive and EXTREMELY expensive. You will be hooked and before you know it, in addition to spending the discretionary income mommy and daddy give you, you will next be spending your textbook money as well as your food money. Boy, will the shit hit the proverbial fan when your parents find out! I'd love to be a fly on the wall during that conversation.

Don't believe for ONE SECOND, you will hobby once, get laid, go off to college, and never see another provider again. Once you pay money for a sexual encounter, the bottom line is that you will be hooked. You will think its the greatest thing in the world and your life as a hobbyist will begin. Conversely, if you did not enjoy the first experience, you will be so annoyed  that you wasted your (or mommy/daddy's)money , that you will immediatelyfind another lady and book a session. Thus the cycle begins.

The bottom line is that you are going to college and about to enjoy the best four years of your life (at least the last four years you will enjoy with no responsibility) Look I know your hand is getting tired from jerking off and you want to get laid (again, in case you missed my point, getting laid in college is really not that difficult) but the LAST thing you need to do is see a provider. Now when you are older, you may have other reasons to see a provider in addition to sex (a sounding board for advice, a date for a company function or business dinner, etc). When you are 18-21, the SOLE purpose of seeing a provider is to get laid. Period. Dude, let's take a step back and reevaluate your situtaion. YOU DO NOT NEED A PROVIDER TO GET LAID. You can wait a few weeks until the semester begins. College will afford you many many opportunities for sex.  

thisisalloneword1234 17 Reviews 886 reads
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4 / 10

If you are a little shy/nice then getting laid in college is NOT easy. I attended frat parties and none of us ever "hooked" up . It seems the one's who were getting laid were the same old frat boy/campus sluts. For all the rest, there was hardly any sex going on. As far as wasting daddy's money, I would think it better to p4p and spend your time studying rather than looking to get laid. Because if you aren't the alpha male type, the odds are not in your favor.

McDonald000 90 Reviews 1069 reads
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5 / 10

First, being 18 and wanting to see a provider to me seems very young and somewhat foolish on your part. You are merely just a boy. You haven't experience anything yet. Its understandable that you want to lose your virginity. I would definitely take the advice of the first guy that responded to you. College opens a big door to meet a variety of people. You have to be patient, get a feel of things around your college, and the girls around. Its not hard to find a group of people to hang around or a girl that matches your interest and intent. Believe me, there are girls out there in college that suits every person, you just have to be patient and work with the girl. If you spent time with that girl, your going to have sex with her as many times as you want. Even, if she doesn't give it up, you can get BJ's from her or play with each other.

Seeing a provider at 18 is just too young, you have to be patient and experience more before you can hobby. Honestly, most providers won't see 18 YO. If they do, some might take advantage of your youth. Just wait man, wait until you have got some experience. Just try not to rush into situations.

Remember when you was 10, you wish that you were older (like being 18, so you can do more things, like buy cigarets or what have you). Now, you are 18, its not that much different. You just have to be patient. You are still just a child, just be patient and wait, and explore the opportunities at college.

inicky46 61 Reviews 779 reads
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6 / 10

And I see nothing wrong with doing it.  You may, however, find it hard to get screened but if you persist it will work.  Just do your homework like any other newbie.  Read this board, the self-help manual, etc. I went to college a virgin and finally got laid there my sophomore year.  But I always wished an older person had taken me to a brothel when I was 16. Just make sure you don't use a credit card to pay!  Daddy will find out!

ofwz6cpe 32 Reviews 668 reads
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7 / 10

You can be shy and still get laid once you come to the realization a lot of girls are also shy and is waiting for the guy to lead.

harborview 10 Reviews 1249 reads
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8 / 10

not every college guy can get all the sex they want.   And there is something to be said for getting some experience before heading off to college.   I recommend if you want to do this, to do more than just pop your cherry.  Select a MILF...  +/- 30 say or even older...  who is willing to not only get you off, which should be a given, but in a couple of sessions teach you the basics of pleasing a partner.  Now, not all women are constructed exactly the same, nor have the exact same preferances, but there is a certain commonality to the female body.  
(I do not recommend the youngest girls (providers) because in my experience they expect a guy to be totally push button & do not have the experence to be a good teacher.)  I know a mature lady who has popped a few cherries...      

Why bother if you do not...  as has been correctly recommended...  continue "hobbying".  Because being confident that you know what you are doing, that confidence will come in handy when confronted with sex in a civie relationship.   A word of warning...  once you have this experience, you can never undo it.  I recall returning to dating sometime after ending my first intimate relationship.  I never put the make on that sweet young thing...   but she just sensed that I had more experience than she had in mind.  Probably this will not be an issue in college, but this speaks to this ESP sense.

Before you do this, you must be willing to NEVER speak of this to anyone outside of these boards.  No your brother, your best friend, your GF, or even the girl you are about to marry.  IF pressed you say you've had GFs before...  you never say how long they were your GF for.   You take the hobby to the grave with you.  Seriously.   A SECRET is only a SECRET when you are the ONLY one who knows.   You don't want some drunk buddy to spill the beans on you at the worst possible time.  

Best Wishes!  H

Crazy Diamond 12 Reviews 794 reads
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9 / 10

Unless you are a total loser, you won't be a virgin after your freshman year.  You will have many opportunities to get laid at the myriad of parties that occur there, so don't jump ahead of yourself.  Your primary mission at your age should be continue your education, so that you get a good job with career advancement possibilities when you graduate  At your age, you should be playing the game as a civvie.  At 18, you're still a kid...enjoy it while you still can.    You can always become a hobbyist later if/when things are not working to your satisfaction...and you have he $ to play.

Pinchi 11 Reviews 1186 reads
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10 / 10

Listen, you don't have to be the jock, the stud, the foreign exchange student, or the rich kid to get laid. Guys fall for looks, girls fall for talk. Ever see that big fat guy with that beautiful, sexy girl and wonder what the fuck? Notice how he walks around with confidence, not looking like a rat worried about someone stealing his cheese? He walked up to that girl and started talking to her... the first big step. then he complimented her, made eye contact throughout and let her know she's special. Ladies of all ages love confidence and compliments, and you'll have a better chance if you dive right in rather than wade around waiting to see how she reacts to other guys.

Talk to every girl you see, learn to be comfortable with them and talk without fear. You may get shot down a few times at first, but you'll reap the benefits later.

Don't worry about trying to rush and lose your virginity, you're young, your dick will be hard for years...

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