...an employee id badge, as a sole means of verification.  If a gentleman wishes to arrange a date with me, he must first forward the appointment form from my website, which will include his place of employment, etc.  I do not need to physically phone your employer, as I have other means of verification.  Once the information you have provided, is verified, and our date arranged, you may include your id badge as one of the two forms of id I request you to show me, upon meeting.

   I recently had a gentleman inquire about a date, and he told me, that upon meeting he will show me his id badge. He did provide the company he worked for (no last name), and I had to decline.  His id badge might have been a shield and silver bracelets, and that is one risk I will not take.

   Each lady has her own method of screening, while some do not screen at all.  Only you can decide how much information you wish to share.

   I wish you all the best, and most of all: have fun!

Hugs and Kisses,
Kelly

How does she know it's still a valid ID?  She doesn't.  You have a choice, either cough up personal info to several providers or join one or more of the verification sites.

Read the self help center and look into DateCheck or Preferred411.

Swim

I have had gents who are new and have no references contact me and say they will provide their driver's license when we meet or their employee badge.Nope not going to work for me.
People can get a fake license(although I wouldn't recommend it)and if that person is not a good person meeting first and showing an ID the provider is already in trouble.

Either provide the requested info the provider is requesting or sign-up at date-check or p411.
Also even being new with a P411 or date-check membership some providers might still require additional info being that you are a new member.

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