Ok. Here's the thing. Saw an ad that was in my local area that made the following statements that caught my attention.

"bb everything with proof of recent std test."

Now here comes the dumb part of my question and leads into possibly others.

Is this for real! I mean it seems obviously stupid but at the same time it intrques me. Also, this beggs the question. Can this be a reasonable accomidation for both provider and client, provided both are willing participants.

Honestly I'm not sure what to think of this. Part of me is thinking fake/le, the other is thinking that this provider is out of her mind. Am I just over-thinking this too much?

To providers: Would you do this? If so. What reasons would this be okay with you?

Hope that some of my answers get resolved. And no I didn't contact the provider.

NewHobbyGuy12

That being said, I would stay away, far away, from any girl who offers unprotected sex.  There is no way to verify that all partners involved (that means her, you and the dozens (hundreds?) of guys she fucked before you are all clean.

BBFS in this day and age isn't wise. For starters you could test well today and still be carrying something in it's latent stage, or the guy she saw two days ago could of gave her something and she has yet to know it. Most providers only get tested every 30 days. That leaves a lot of room for error. A lot of quality providers would not see you if they got wind you saw her, and we do talk to one another.

On a lighter note, the pill is not 100% effective. If an oops happened that would be a perfect episode of Jerry Springer

More common than you might think, and plenty of ladies do the BB thing w/out tests. Some try without telling you, so keep an eye on things if you value your equipment.

ly then maybe...but that's still a chance."

it is in the providers best interest to continually take care of her health, ie get tested, extra precautions etc whereas in the civie world/bar pickup/one night stand etc unfortunately safety is sometimes an after thought....
bottom line be safe all the time

Hypotheticly speaking: If an oops happend and a child were to be concieved. Honestly I would take care of my kid. If mom wants to be in my life at that point, in a serious relationship or otherwise, that would be solely her decision.

As to the whole every 30days testing thing goes. I myself get tested every 6 months for HIV AIDS and Hep as it takes that long to show on a test. However I do go every 30days for everything else. Thankfully (Knocking on Wood) I am clean and glad for it.

But thanks for your comment. I appriciate it.

What does she consider "recent"?
Was did those "other" guys do between the test and when they saw her?
How thoroughly do you think she checked those std test results, if at all?

I'm gonna play the devil's advocate here....
Possibly she is not a real provider...but someone who is down on their luck needing a lot of extra income(since BBFJ usually goes for a lot more)and she is just scared about contracting an STD.

When I was first starting out I was freaked about getting an STD although I'd use protection. I'd ask "when was your last test" now I know that scares many away...lol

But to be in reality DON'T DO BBFS. I mean if she is not a provider and doesn't see guys regularly then maybe...but that's still a chance.


P.S......that .01% of pregnancies that happen on the pill are 9/10 times because the pill was not taken correctly,on time, at the same time everyday. Other women can release eggs with a whole mess of pills and injections and still get pregnant.

Remember those famous words "No glove No love"  I don't remember who said it... Maybe Abraham Lincoln... or  O.J.

Nah. For OJ it was "If the glove don't fit. Just kill your ex wife ... I mean. You must aquit.

Ewwww sir...I wouldn't take the risk.  Your life and health is more important