I just recently tried my first, and it all went great.

I did some non VIP research while I was out of town. I found a woman with a few pages of reviews and fairly consistent scores. I was up front with her about my naivety when we first spoke, and she made it all as easy as ordering something from a catalog.

They let Bush be President twice with his checkered past; so I wouldn't worry much about this hobby and your professional standing.

Thanks guys.  I have read the TER manual, several times.  Just nervous.  

I'm thinking it's safer all around if my first out of state.

Since you're travelling a substantial distance, you should let her know this in advance.   Before you leave on your journey, call to confirm that she's expecting you.  If her incall is at a hotel, you won't be able to get the exact room number until you're very near, but you can ask her if it would be o.k. for you to call back at exactly (whatever time you estimate puts you very near her hotel).  If she says yes, be sure to follow through.  If she says, just call me when you get in the parking lot, then you have at least established that you're dilligent and perhaps eased any fears on her part that you may be a no-show.  With a well-reviewed provider, she probably won't no-show you (although it could happen) and she'll be even less likely to no-show you if she feels like you are serious and know what you're doing.  Hence my advice.

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