I am still new to the hobby and I have found this website to be an excellent safeguard to be certain that you know what to expect if you arrange a meeting with a girl.

I was wondering if anyone could give me insight on a particular question. I happen to be a guy who is working with a very large tool. Would this have a detrimental effect on the quality of service I would get?

I am sure it comes down to the individual girl in question but at the same time I thought their might be a concensus on whether or not this would hurt the quality of service. This would be an issue that you could not query the girl about before the meeting due to proper guidelines to adhere to on the phone. Don't get me wrong I love having a big one but alot of girls I have dated have had trouble hanging with me because of this. This is a secondary reason I am looking to get into the hobby,to find a girl who can hang.

Any "blessed" guys out there who can relay their thoughts and experiances with this issue? Any girls(those being in the 8 or above range in terms of looks) that you can recommend who like the big tools at the hardware store...lol..

and her desires and physical limitations.

Probably the activity that would be affected the most is anal, and deep throating.

You should make the provider aware of your physical situation so that there are no unpleasant surprises.

If you are long, that can be dealt with easier than thick.  If the girl doesn't like long, she just doesn't need you to plunge in as deep.  If thick, there isn't much you can do with that.  Some girls love girth, some definitely do not.  I can tell you of 3 girls that do not, LOL.

Other services are yes, gonna depend on the skill/gag level of the girl.  

to me, there is no good answer.  you are just gonna have to find out for yourself with each individual.

I don't mind a man with a large tool at all, variety is the spice of life! ..but I  would suggest that you bring your own condoms, so that if the lady is not prepared with XL condoms, you will still be able to have a good time.  A heads up along the line of having a "large tool" would be ok with me.

I dont see it effecting the "quality of service if you know going into it you will need to be more gentle than most.  Keep in mind, the "larger the tool" the less you can go at it full force.  Remember, we have only so much room up there before you hit body parts..lol  

Positioning is a key factor.  Some women have to be able to adjust in order to ensure the comfortabilty to allow larger "members" to accomidate you and make sure she is not in pain the whole time.  

I've known several "larger than normal members" and it's pretty much in how you approach the actual "intercourse".  Dont expect to go full throttle body slapping thrusts...and if you find a gal who can...eww, never mind, that's a scary thought..lol

I met a gentleman (outside the hobby) right after my divorce..and seriously, I admitted there was NO WAY that thing was ever going to be able to go in...my thumb and middle finger wouldnt even touch when grabbing it and it had to be the length of my forearm...I actually felt sorry for him and he admitted being "larger" than most wasnt all it's cracked up to be.  lol

But as stated above...be sure and bring your own condoms..a lot of girls have a variety pack, but most dont plan on the "econo" size...lol

Thanks for the insight guys and ladies.

I am pretty much used to having to take it easy with the girls I date,especially because I always go for girls that are slim.

As for informing a girl of this beforehand as some of you suggested,wouldn't that break the rules of ediquette?? I thought you weren't supposed to talk about the details at all when talking on the phone. I wasn't planning on doing that,even though I would like to,because it may violate those rules. Maybe not?????

since it is the prime strategy of LE to get a girl busted.

Many a provider will hang up at the mention of a question like "So, how far can we go?"

You have to be very discrete.  It is probably OK to say something like: "Do you like to kiss?" or: "Is massage something you like to give or receive?"  but that is about it.  Some providers don't mind questions like:  "What languages do you speak?"  (i.e. French, Italian, Russian, etc.), but others find even these code words too forward.

For graphic details, that is what the reviews are for.

Also, generally, if a provider's site says something like "no upcharge for extras" or "rates are all inclusive"  then that is a wink that you'll find just about anything, within reason, that your heart (or parts farther south) could want.

You can certainly allude to it, and she'd probably like to have some advance warning.  You might say something like "I thought I should probably mention beforehand that I'm a fairly big guy, and it's attracted attention before.  OK, sure, I'm actually only 5' 7", and I weigh 150 pounds, but I'm still a big guy, y'know?"

OK, that sounds pretty stupid when read aloud.  Still, try coming up with something, and remember that just having a big one isn't enough to make you good in bed.  The advice you've gotten about positioning and vigor is good, and you'll want to make sure there's plenty of time for her to get used to your "presence" before getting into the swing of things.