Age limits. I contacted a provider that had ( prefers 35+ ) on her site. I'm 4 months away from that age . it also said newbie friendly , which I am. She told me no. And to read her add again on age limit. So does (prefer) automatically me don't even bother if u are under that ? Or is this just a swing and miss for a newbie with no credibility?

It is up to the individual provider.

and are honest and up front, a good provider will overlook technicalities.

That one obviously doesn't, so move on.

....I much prefer the company of gentlemen over the age of 45, but I will make an exception from time to time, if a gentleman is over 40.  A few months shy of my age preference is not a deal breaker.  I am Newbie friendly, but the gentleman must still meet my age requirement.

up to her.  Some are flexible, some are not.  If you got turned down, move on.  There are plenty more out there.

I do not have a prestablished age limit that I cater to however, if a younger person contacts me with no references, I definitely take a step back and think about it for a bit, not because he is a bad person or a bad date but because it would make me a bit nervous the fact that he has never seen a provider before. I would say in your case, if you are nice, respectful, polite during the communication process and carry yourself well during the date, getting references will not present any problem so you can see as many girls as you like. Young age with references presents a much better case than newbie and young age.

I hope that Kelly or Paloma can comment, but age alone isn't enough. If you are an age-qualified CLOWN who is going to attract the wrong kind of attention on your cell phone, in the lobby, ... whereever ... I think that would make you an age-qualified undesirable to everyone. There are just dumb things that may be OK (meet with approval) from your sports buddies (getting drunk and peeing on the neighbors flowers) that are unnecessary headaches for a discreet hostess.  They have to try to figure out how mature you are from references, emails, phone calls, etc. and whether they will be comfortable to see you IN a room but also whether you can handle the rest of the process (parking, doorbells, elevators, the whole enchilada) OUTSIDE the room as an experienced gentleman and not a sophomoric doofus.

I see guys as young as 21 and Yah...I am checking your ID lol. It's the newbie and being a younger guy that might affect you. Does not hurt to ask, I mean duh...4 months is not exactly 5 years shy of 35.

....and thankfully, I read people well.  I never visit with a gentleman, without exchanging a few e-mails, and speaking with him on the telephone.  

...up to her, I know a provider who I didn't try to see because I'm so young, and she said she preferes 30+ guys. Then she replied to one of my ISOs and I told her I thought she was only seeing older guys, but sure enough, she says she sees younger guys too. I mean I have the refs and I'm told I'm mature for my age in some regards.