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I use it to save some back and forth by listing my appointment flexibility
cocktail-party 425 reads
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Such as: "Hi ____, my preference is to meet at noon, but I could manage to meet at anytime before 5pm." or "I can also meet at the same time on the last day of your visit." You get the idea.

guyrandom051992 reads

Hello!  Newbie here, I've joined p411 and had my employment verified, and now and looking to set up appointment with a provider.  Since the p411 appointment request form includes time and date, how long, incall/outcall, and my contact info, what would be something to put in the personal message spot?  May be over thinking things but I feel like there's something that should be put there that I'm not thinking of.  Thanks.

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DJ1985517 reads

Tell her whatever you want, something like I'm looking forward to meeting you or some such. Don't talk about sex or money in your little note.

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Hello!  Newbie here, I've joined p411 and had my employment verified, and now and looking to set up appointment with a provider.  Since the p411 appointment request form includes time and date, how long, incall/outcall, and my contact info, what would be something to put in the personal message spot?  May be over thinking things but I feel like there's something that should be put there that I'm not thinking of.  Thanks.

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VOO-doo461 reads

general introductory details about yourself 'I'm 52 y/o, an avid cyclist, love reading books about {whatever}.'

general details about your desires for the appt (not explicit): 'I love lingerie and perfume. I'm looking to enjoy a relaxed evening over a bottle of wine.'

Some alternate times/places you could meet, just in case she's not available at the time you requested.

Some people don't put anything into that space.

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cocktail-party426 reads

Such as: "Hi ____, my preference is to meet at noon, but I could manage to meet at anytime before 5pm." or "I can also meet at the same time on the last day of your visit." You get the idea.

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jaydalee498 reads

Like others have said you can put anything in the box or leave it a blank.
Most gents who contact me via P411 appt request put their hotel info in the message box and they might mention how they are flexible on time but just put a specific time so the message would go through.
Or if you are in town for a certain amount of days you might put in the message box you are flexible on the date of appt.
Yes,you are over thinking this a bit.If you don't have anything to add you could just say I am looking forward to seeing you and I hope to hear from you soon

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Senator.Blutarsky419 reads

I use the personal message area to introduce myself, let her know where I noticed her (P411, TER, or some other site) and as CP mentioned give her an idea of my schedule should the appointment day/time I requested not work for her.  No need to get overly wordy, but use it to personalize your request.  

Search this board too as there are some good suggestions for what to put in an introductory email.  I know mrfisher had some good advice for this in the past.

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GaGambler299 reads

Although P411 rules state that "appointments should not be requested through PM" I still find it easier to make an inquiry through PM first and then if asked to, I will then make a formal request through the "request an appointment" route.

Personally, i treat "rules" as "requests" and as long as I am polite, respectful, and most importantly "the one paying" I have no problems bending the rules just slightly. lol

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