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Even though there is no such thing as 100% foolproof, I'd like to do as much as possible.
Here are some thoughts that crossed my mind:
1) How about asking a provider to produce very recent blood tests (lets say 1 week at the max) report in lieu of extra fees/charge?
2) Being content with Hand Job only. Isn't it safer?
3) Choosing a provider who is shaved since an active lesion will become more prominent in this case?

I can't do without DFK. Yes, no intercourse is fine, but no DFK is not! that's me.
Any ladies that live around Atlanta are welcome to approach if they think they can address this requirement.
I apologize in advance if this post hurted anybody's pride or if this has broken any rule of this website.

1)  waste of time....by the time you see them a busy provider will have had several contacts

2) HJ is safer, but intimate contact always has some risk

3) Most providers are shaved, its hard to find ones that are not.....

Do everything covered: Both BJ and Intercourse. Brings risk down to near Zero. Now even BBBJ is considered "safe" by many experts in the STD field, but it is more like 95% whereas CBJ and other covered treats brings risk down to almost 99.9% safe. The only tangible risk is really Herpes and HPV in the absence of any lesions and as the experts say, you need some real vigorous friction to transmit viruses under those covered conditions

Forget blood tests. It will not really prove anything as Dr mentioned.

Happy and safe hobbying.

and still can't figure out what you mean by"in lieu of extra fees/charge" ??

1) Bloodtests probably wouldn't help.  If you stay with reviewed providers your chances would go down.  Stay away from streetwalkers or any drug users.  Most providers in the US do not have HIV/ Stds.

2) A Hand Job would be 100% safe.  There is no way a STD can be transmitted by anything other than the mouth, genitals or anus.

3) Shaved could give you a better view and allow you to see HPV, HSV blisters or syphilis canker sores.  But that isn't foolproof either.

What is foolproof?  Abstinence of course.  Also, as I mentioned, if your genitals do not come in contact with mouth, genitals or anus you have zero risk.  A condom is extremely effective at preventing although not 100%  Also, as mentioned, it is near impossible to transmit STDs from a providers mouth to your genitals.  Genital to genital and genital to anus are the most common ways to transmit.

be sure you get a test, ask provider to get one prior to meeting and show it to you and if they don't no go. BTW what is a DFK (i'm a newbie)

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Normal intercourse only, with a sturdy condom and spermicide. Anything else is too risky. If you really need to get nasty and unsafe its time to consider a regular girl friend.
I wouldnt pay a ton of money for just a HJ. I can do that to myself for free.
Testing is pointless cuz most girls see at least one client every single day.
The whole shaving is cleaner/less clean argument isnt as important as you might think. If you believe just looking at a girl is enough to tell if she's diseased or not, I recommend avoiding the hobby. Get a regular girlfriend and learn about her sexual history before you sleep together.

1) Do you know how much those things cost? I have insurance and it still costs me $80 out of pocket. And as mentioned before a lady can see a few if not many more men by the time the test was taken.

2)HJ is safe, but hell you could contract staph infection! a covered BJ is a lot safer but no fun (in my opinion and a lot of guys)

3)Lesions will come and go...so although she may be shaved she could not have an active infection but still be infected. Not to mention sometimes when ladies shave down there you get shaving "bumps" and sometimes an ingrown hair. I once had a guy ask if it was herpes...I was appalled and never saw him again. I do all I can to prevent this but everyonce in awhile they happen!

Long story short...if you are going to be a hobbyist you are taking a risk. The risk may be small but it's there. But yet you take a risk walking out your front door everyday.

Good Providers will keep up with their hygiene and not do uncovered sex. BBBJ has very few risks whereas BBJCIM has a few more.

Stick with well reviewed ladies and "wrap it before you tap it"

and P.S...there are a lot of posts just like yours. try searching

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There is a life-preserver icon in the upper-right corner of this forum.  It leads you to the Self-Help Center where there is a very good acronym list, which you should definitely check out, given all the acronyms people use here.

Also, check out the other replies to this thread.  Insisting on test results is not only unreliable but also such an unnecessary hassle that it will probably prevent you from seeing any providers.

bad english, i meant "in exchange for" instead of "in lieu of"