My "experiences" have only involved FBSM, but I'm considering something more.  Should I expect a FS provider to be comfortable with my references?  Or should I expect that a FS provider will view me the same as a newbie without any references?

As a FBSM provider, I accept references from FS providers. I don't think it matters what you've done with a lady. From my personal perspective, I only care about whether you're a gentleman or not. Being a gentleman is being respectful, regardless of the activity.

While not exactly what you're looking for, I hope it helps. I would simply ask the provider in the initial contact whether they accept references from massage providers or not. It's not a big deal.

Have fun!
Bella

It's easy for FBSM providers to accept references from FS providers because all "the bases" are covered, so to speak. However, a FBSM reference does not cover the same ground. I don't accept them and neither do alot of other girls I know. Many FS providers won't even accept a reference from an agency, so definitely not one from a FBSM provider.