I think experienced providers expect a review, so it's not necessary.  Some providers actually don't want reviews so you might want to ASK as a courtesy.  But I think they'll tell you anyway.

I've never brought it up so I don't know how a provider will react but if you bring it up before the session, she might take it as a threat.  How it will affect the provider's demeanor or the session I don't know, but I wouldn't think causing tension was a good idea.

because it might come across intimidating or might have negative effects.

You should always write a review about a bad session. No asking is necessary. For a good session, you might ask the provider if she wants a review to see if she wants any details left off because they are normally not on the menu.

If a gentleman told me when he arrived that he intended to write a review, I would probably wonder if he told me that to attempt to manipulate more/better service. I would probably find it a bit offensive at the outset to be told that.

From a hobbyist view though, it is also preferable that you not mention your intent beforehand. Reviews should be an objective summary of a 'typical' encounter with a provider (darn, I always forget, all reviews are fantasy). But I digress. If you've told her beforehand that you plan to write a review, and as a result did in fact experience a session that is far and away better than what is typical for that provider, then any gentleman going to see her based on your review will be going in with expectations that are not likely to be met, and will leave disappointed as a result.

So, by all means ask/tell her if you feel it is the right thing to do, but it is best to not mention it until after your time together is over.

Sinsoftheflesh is totally right about.
Being an independent lady myself, i prefer not to know till after our meeting is over. It puts extra stress on the lady and i don't think that is a good thing.
On the other hand i found that any response (may it be a review or just an e-mail after the meeting) is very beneficial. I like to know if a gentlemen enjoyed my company or not.


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I would not want it to affect the session, she might be intimidated or might not do some things for fear it will wind up in a review and everyone else will expect the same. Also, she might not inspire you enough to write a review.

a review is likely.  Some have asked not to be reviewed, and some have asked that I review them, and some have been so enraptured by my masterful love-making they are unable to speak...okay she fell asleep...whatever...

Do what makes you feel best, but do not expect a better session just because you promise a review.

Doing it beforehand gives the message, "You're on stage, make it good", and that can turn an experience into something not so great.  She can get stressed, and things can just get WEIRD.  (Then again, you might get service that isn't an option for regular non-reviewing customers -- it's been known to happen.)

I've always found it a good idea to let the lady know afterwards, when we're chatting a bit, that I was thinking of writing up a review.  Trust me, she's got a pretty good idea about whether you really enjoyed yourself.  I've encountered ladies who didn't feel comfortable with the rules TER puts out for "reviewable" ladies, ladies who wanted me to leave out things that weren't going to be generally available, and ladies that just didn't like TER.  I consider these all to be perfectly legitimate points of view, in case you're wondering.

I won't write a review if the lady asks me not to.  I WILL write a ripoff report if one is needful, or if something is going on that I feel needs to be brought to the attention of the community.  (You can examine my message board history and my reviews if you like -- there's precious little that isn't positive there.)  I can't think of a lot that I'd put under the "needs to brought to the attention of the community" heading -- drug use, medical conditions, or shady characters hanging around, maybe.  Faked pictures, definitely.

...she does something for you she is not known for doing.  For instance, one of my providers gives me a BBBJ but it is not mentioned in any of her other reviews.  Because of this, I asked her if I could write it up.  She asked me not to and I respected her wishes.  

If I had mentioned it without asking, all future clients would be expecting it, and she'd be pissed.  And my "favor" would go away too I'm sure.

After the session is fine.  This gives a much truer picture of what others might expect.