I want to use a cover for everything, and I don't want the provider to start any bb activity before I can stop her.  And I don't think kissing is the best idea for me.  Is checking out the reviews the only way to make sure of that?  Or is there a polite protocal to go by?  I just need to be really careful.  Thanks for any help.

No provider will force you to do anything bare back or force you to kiss.  The things you don't seem to want are the polar opposite of what most us us DO want but that doesn't mean you have to submit to them.

Use the reviews as we all would-to find a dependable and safe lady. At the appointment, once you are comfortable with each other, simply let her know that you are not interested in any unprotected activity or in any kissing.  Any good lady will be happy to comply.

...you want.  Do a review search using the following criteria:

   kissing: No
   blow job: Yes - with condom

I'm sure you will find providers in your city who fit these criteria.  You don't have to look at every review to find them.  Using TER's "Search Reviews" will eliminate the ones who don't meet your criteria so you won't have to ask or stop someone from giving you a bbbj.

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The ladies will generally have an adequate supply of these; just let her know.

If an advertisement says GFE she definately kisses and probably offers BBBJ.  However a GFE woman won't force herself to kiss you.

I am a GFE provider.

When I unwittingly accept a client who is looking for CBJ, no kissing and as little contact as possible for "safety" I am usually offended and disinterested in providing the service; it just isn't what I do.  I can respect the client for his preferences and approach BUT why choose a GFE provider when there are so many girls who prefer "safe" encounters too?

I say read the reviews and find the CBJ / non-GFE provider to fit your needs or allude to it in your contact so that a GFE provider isn't caught off guard and subsequently made to provide something that she finds offensive.

There is nothing wrong with letting your provider know before you get started that you want everything covered and you prefer not to kiss. I don't think any provider would be offended by this as long as you are polite and respectful. I usually let the client kiss me first, or I simply as if he likes to kiss, I know some men don't like to kiss or maybe they just don't do it with providers, others love it.
It is always best to be up front about waht you like or dislike to avoid an uncomfortable session.

But I have had some say you don't bother. Makes me think what she allow others guys to do or what STD she has allready. with 300 plus reviews searh for the one that Bust fit you needs I look at a lot and call 100's before seeing on lady I picky I paying. however I would dance with any gal at a night club.

I think, as a provider, you should always know what you do and do not like..since you have alimited time together, you avoid any problems or such. I like to know what you do and do not like before we meet. Plus, if there is a fantasy needed, It is already in play the second I knock on your door

bridgette

of your choice.  As long as the lady knows ahead of time, she will be able to bring flavored condoms to assist with CBJ (ever taste latex?).

This is simple.  When you first get started / meet, ask her what her rules are.  After she shares, then you can say something along the line of "I prefer that we do all activities covered and I'm not into kissing."  

Shouldn't be any problem based on my experiences.  In fact, the lady should appreciate you being upfront about it.  

These ladies are in the business of pleasing you.  Most will be happy to comply with any reasonable request.  Yours seem entirely reasonable and I can see why you might make them.  

Good luck.

OMG please tell her! A customer asking for that would just make my day.