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I never discriminate based on weight
missbrookesong See my TER Reviews 1609 reads
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Since i've never seen a grossly obese man before. Overweight is perfectly fine as long as a man has excellent hygiene and is well mannered.

And I know for a fact that my sentiment reflects that of most providers in this business.

niceshygaguy2835 reads

For the overweight guys (50-70 lbs overweight):

Have you ever show up at the room of a provider and then been turned away because you are overweight?

For all providers:

Have you ever booked an appointment with a guy and turned him down when you've seen him?  I'm not talking about morbidly obese guys 350+ lb, but more of 250 - 275 lb guys.  Even if he is clean, polite, and respectful have you turned him away?

What is the majority on this?

I was, at one point, well over 100 pounds overweight.  I was never turned away or DNS'd back then(I lost 100 pounds about three years ago)but I was also very realistic about what was going to happen in the room. I was not going to be pounding a girl missionary style who was about a third of my weight and I also new that I had to take a shower immediately upon arrival if I wanted any real hope of her mouth getting anywhere near my dick (fat guys sweat, all the time).

Honestly, in my experience, it's not the weight that will get you turned away or DNS'd, it's your hygiene and your attitude that matters. Of course there will always be exceptions.  No woman should have to have to see any "type" that she is not comfortable with.

"A hooker's job is to fuck the most unattractive guys on the planet"

 Although I'm sure there are a handful of foolishly unprofessional providers who have no compunction in discriminating against overweight men; providers as a whole look past aesthetics and are far more concerned with your personal hygiene and demeanor.    


I'm a big dude. I'm clearly overweight, but tall as well. At 6'4" @270 I don't necessarily look sloppy, but let's just say I'm not the most attractive naked guy.

I'm dying to know the impression most providers have when they open the door and are confronted with someone like me that is just big all over.

I'm sure personal taste is the most important factor, but I'm curious to know if providers' answers to this question would show anything surprising (or disheartening).

There was just a discussion on this exact topic on the general board. I gotta say, I was actually kind of shocked to discover that my take on this issue appears to be the minority view. Ah well. Here is a link to the discussion.

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Since i've never seen a grossly obese man before. Overweight is perfectly fine as long as a man has excellent hygiene and is well mannered.

And I know for a fact that my sentiment reflects that of most providers in this business.

For me I have never had this happen where she refused service but I could tell she didn't want to see me. I mean I am not horrily obese but I am big guy. Most of the providers I see dont even pay attention to my weight and since I have a gut most of the time they rub it and say its fun. I think the majority of the providers will say as long as hygeine isn't an issue its no problem and thats why I shower before I come to and when I get there just to be even better

johnhuntback1584 reads

too fat, too old, or even too ugly. I have, however, been turned away for being too poor.

As a hobbyist, I see providers that are around 5'0 to 5'7"  and with a medium to small frame.  I don't want to be with BBW ladies.
I am paying for my preferences.  I don't see ladies that don't have pics unless they have many reviews and their description is in the review.  yes I am picky.  But then again I am in great shape and expect the same for a great experience.

No, never and I have a client that is easily 450...morbidly obese. But this guy is clean and does realize that there are limitations. He's a sweetheart!

On this note, there are guys I won't see, but weight is not the criteria and never will be.

If a guy shows up that is very heavy and does not have good hygiene, then there are things that will not be done. I will NOT make him feel bad, but at the same time will not make myself do something that I have to "deal" with.

I've dealt with that alot as a provider, mainly because where I'm from overweight guys are typical.  I've just made sure about hygiene... after that's out of the way, we really don't care so much about that.  I've found guys like that are better customers if you treat them right.  

I have turned away clients but not based on looks... being rude, rough, and very bad hygiene- that will do it.  

If your clean and willing, a good provider will make you feel like it's no big deal and you'll have a good experience.

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