http://www.theeroticreview.com/reviews/submitReview.asp

Plus I think you need to have some credibility on here hun....

Click on My reviews.

There you will find the status of your review.

Re: Click on "Account Manager" at the top of the page.

In the left side menu, click on "my reviews."

When that opens, you will see the review listed and a status.  If the status says "new," it hasn't been approved yet.  If the status says "approved" you should be all set.  If the status says disapproved, check out the reason.  If you can fix the problem easily:

Click on "Review Questions" near the bottom of the left side menu and ask them if you can fix the review.

If the review was disapproved for a reason beyond your control, such as your newness to the site, have some patience and write a couple of more. You can always resubmit once you've built up some time and presence on the site.

Good luck

If so, it is unlikely to be published until she gets a review from an experienced reviewer.

I know it is aggravating but this is what TER needs to do to keep phony reviews off the site.