I have a mustache and a goatee (shaved down from a full beard many years ago) that I usually keep trimmed short and neat. I've not heard any complaints to date, but that's not to say there wasn't some discomfort and she simply failed to tell me. In any event, I'm sure as hell not going to shave them off just for the sake of this hobby, because without them I've been accused of looking too much like my father, and that simply cannot be. (I'd trim other areas if I got any complaints, but the 'stache and G are staying right where they are.)

I have a full beard, trimmed short and neat.  I have only had one provider suggest that it would be an issue for her, and she was a bad experience anyhow.  Too many other rules. The other providers I have been with didn't complain, and they seemed to enjoy the attention at the Y without objection.  But I do try to avoid to much facial hair friction, as I know it can be irritating to sensitive skin.  I actually think stubble is more abrasive than a full beard.

I normally brush my chin on areas I would also explore by mouth. I have been told my beard is soft
and in most cases the activity is new to the lady. I have been told the sensation is very pleasurable.

would you want us rubbing sandpaper on your cock? Most facial hair of guys I've been with, though, isn't rough. The main issue for me is five-o-clock shadow. If you don't have that, then you should mostly be fine. But please don't rub your face around there too much. Jamming your facial hair and rubbing it around does NOT feel good, especially on freshly shaved skin and sensitive girl parts.

My prefernce is no facial hair at all. Aesthetically, I find it more attractive. From a hygiene standpoint, I am less likely to be reluctant to kiss you. Never will I foget the man who's mustache was so long it covered both his upper and lower lip. I still gag a little over his attempts at kissing me. It felt like trying to kiss a porcupine. From a DATY standpoint, a smooth shave is more enjoyable.

However, if you are truly attatched to your whiskers, here are some suggestions:


1. Keep it well groomed, and trimmed short. I don't want to wrestle overgrown hair out of my way to find the lips hidden beneath.

2. Use conditioner on your facial hair. It really does soften the hair shaft, making it more enjoyable to touch, and be touched by.

3. Don't trim your facial hair the day you are going to see a lady. Immediately after you trim your stache is when it is most abrasive. Trim it at least a day or two in advance to give the tip of the hair shaft time to lose its abrasiveness.

... as long as he keeps it trimmed, neat, clean, and as soft as possible, it won't negatively affect our time together.

And if he LIKES having facial hair, please keep it! It's sweet to be so considerate, but if it really is a deal-breaker for a lady, it's better to see someone else who you're more compatible with.