..........Or, should I just let her find it on her own?

Its never crossed my mind to alert a provider to this. As a savvy business owner, she should be regularly checking on her reviews, reputation, etc. At the end of a session, I will often ask if she would like for me to review her on the appropriate sites, and I've never had a "no."

I usually let the lady know. If it was a particularly heated date, I will also let her look at it first. Just in case there is something mentioned that she doesn't do with everyone.

Let them read it before hand? I agree, ask if there is anything that isn't part of her regular menu that she would like to have left out. But I don't let them read it before it's posted.

I let them know it has been approved and is posted. Occasionally they will let me know they found it before receiving my notice.

it would encourage the expectation that reviews be written to promote providers, not to inform mongers. Let her find it on her own.

I also ask at the end of a session if she's okay with me posting a review. A few have told me they'd rather not, even when they already had several excellent reviews. A few have also balked when I ask if they're sure about the explicitness TER reviews call for.

I don't want to kiss and tell against a provider's wises (ripoffs, etc. excepted), but I also believe in keeping some separation between reviewer and reviewed.

It's pretty obvious from my webstats when I get a new review (hello, random spike of a few hundred views!), but it's still nice to get a heads up.

EOM

but hold it for a few days.  Unless it is overwhelmingly possitive, some ladies can be upset.  Some are even offended by what I consider a great review.  
I'd let her find it on her own.

I get excited when I have a review ( wish I had more hint hint lol). I check every now and then but it's nice to have a heads up too. Some providers may not be active on TER. It took me a while with  a lot of research and emailing to get set up on limited VIP just to see my review.  So depending if you want to take the time you could email her a copy if you want her to see it. I personally love to hear the positive and negative (hopefully there isn't any) feedback. I know I have done my job well. I have actually gotten turned on by reading my reviews. I get to experience it from the other point of view. Luv It!!

I try to let the woman know when I have posted a review. While she can probably find the review on the board without notifying her,  that seems rather impersonal after just spending a few very intimate moments with her.  Also it somehow seems to extend the positive experience with the woman if you let her know how you really felt about the evening, by sharing your review with her.  I get turned on by writing some of the reviews, reliving the experience, so to speak.  it's nice to hear back that providers like Dedra enjoy experiencing this as well.