So without going into too much detail... I had a session with a provider who to our mutual surprise, we interact in regular day to day life, she waits tables at a restaurant I frequent regularly.

Things were uncomfortable at first, we decided to trust each other with our little secret, and we completed the session (it was hot as hell). I seen her later that week in the civie world, again uncomfortable for a few seconds, but we quickly fell into our normal interaction.

She said she was open to seeing me again as a hobbyist... so this is a train wreck waiting to happen or a hot shared secret we can continue to enjoy?

Providers how do you feel about something like this?

I don't see the big deal. Who really cares about being fired from a waitress job if found out? I sure as hell wouldn't. Now, if I was a Nurse and you were my boss, I would run for the hills and give my 2 week's notice.  

The only thing I might not suggest would be to bring your wife and kids to her restaurant. Surely, there are others you can dine at with them.

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Thanks London, no extra's attached to me, so no worries there, but ya something like that would be just offensive for sure, no need to put anyone thru something like that. Just the guys I work with, none of which know anything about my hobby, but all want to jump her bones too, lol.

A man emails me for a session, and I was doing the work screening. He told me works at a financial institution in the SAME town I live in...

I got this weird feeling, so I said "can you tell me the name of the bank?"

SO he says xxxxx xxxxx

I am sooo glad he could not see the blood drain from my face.  

I said  

"which branch?"

"the one on hoxxxxxxx and kxxxx"

NOW I felt I was gonna faint..

SO he worked as a BANKER in MY BANK that I opened my acct in!  

I ALWAYS went there with my kids, they all knew me there too!@

 
SO ok, I debated not going thru with it...But I decided that I would... it was not weird... BUT  
I now have started going to the OTHER branch in the opposite direction (same distance)

another time YEARS ago, I did a outcall, and he gave me his address... well he lived in the SAME apt complex. The REAL creepy part was his apt, was in the NEXT row (next to mine) and his apt patio looked RIGHT at my FRONT door!!!!

I was like... ok if I DONT go, and he sees me, he might get pissed!  
SO I went, and after 30 min I felt so uncomfortable, I gave him 1/2 of his $$$ back and I told him why I was feeling weird...  

I ended up moving asap (within 2-3 weeks) as I did not want this guy being able to see my BF, and our kids etc 24/7

You do know that you can say no to some of the uncomfortable situations you find yourself in don't you? That's part of being discreet.

The bank guy, well wont lie, it was a 4 hr appt right around end of month so....

 
the other one, that was years ago bu

Lucky you. I could never that Lucky. I would Love to meet a few Bartender Girls in my area as Providers.

It WILL  be a train wreck if you tell your secret to any of your friends .
    I can tell you want to .
   
 If you had tipped your waitress 50%  on your $ 15.00 dollar meals , your entire  
  world would  be different . The butterfly effect .
     
 You don't have to be a high roller to act like one .  
   
   

That is creepy. He knew as your neighbor, what you looked like.... whereas you didn't by name.  

That would freak me out and yeah, I would move. He knew who you were by pictures and called. No other way of explaining it.

It's all up to you (& her) to keep this secret.  If anyone guesses or figures it out, your play time arrangement will be over.  Keep it under wraps & you'll do fine.  

Booking a date and opening the door and realizing she's some hot ass lady from the civvie world I've fantasized about....awesome.  And after the initial shock we have a blast and keep our secret from everyone.  Dayum!

So, this guy did nothing wrong, and you walked out and took half the money? I get that you were uncomfortable, so obviously you could leave, and perhaps that was the best choice. But you still took half the money? Regardless of conventions of the hobby, that's just a bad idea considering he lives right across from you. He might have considered himself robbed at that point and decided to hold a grudge.