Having searched the forum and just using common sense, I understand why there are risks. But my question is - has anyone ever personally known for it to blow up? I would imagine / hope the ladies are disposing of said info once the screening is done?
it is strong enough and not bullsh*t. Typically when one is a professional person they can easily be google searched and have a strong internet presence. Many of the clients I see are this way and easily screened.
I honestly don't care what someone does, frankly it isn't my business. They only reason I ask for it is for my safety! It helps me feel comfortable allowing them into my place. That they are not a robber, rapist, LE etc... I personally feel the more info I have on a client the LESS likely he is to do something bad to me or be what I previously mentioned. I could be wrong but three years in the biz and I have not had anything like that happen to me. While I have seen some clients I would not see again. I have never felt in danger or in fear of my life with a client! I am FORTUNATE to be able to say this I know!
My favorite screening method though is RS2K! I see a lot of RS ppl, 90% of them are top notch guys. No drama, totally fun to visit with.
I don't save anyone's work info. Actually when someone says I have seen u before and I don't recall or know who they are. Most times I ask how I screened them and that is the way I remember who they are. By them telling me what they do for a living.
Nowadays, most places want you to provide a) social security number; b) signed authorization release from the applicant; or c) 3rd party website verification requiring SSN and paid membership from a business legally cleared and pre-screened for access.
On my maiden voyage with a provider a few years ago, when I told someone that my employer only verifies through worknumber.com, she asked me for my LinkedIn information and it was all good.
That's the beauty of reference verification, p411 and date check. You get a degree of safety, and you can always back channel the providers, especially well known local ones for additional confidence.
herself professionally, giving work info is nothing to worry about. Gentlemen send me that all the time on their own accord. I review and delete it immediately if needed for verification. It could harm me just as much them so the safety precautions are taken for both involved. This gig is about 'trust' who truly understand it's capacity, has to be or no one can move forward now can they.
Being a professional in the corp world for years, I just ask for the person using first and last name. When the potential client picks up the phone I simply say, "Thank you. We can continue our conversation through email" that's it.
Of course I research the main number first to verify its valid plus match the voice from our previous conversation.
I have also excepted copies of work badge, pay stub, and DL. Not everyone is comfortable with that ... So only give what you want but know it may not be enough.
It blows up all the time. All it takes is a phone call to your employer and you are out of a job. Some are even know to visit their clients at their place of work and not for good reasons.
Even worse, she could put that info on the internet like a blacklist site or her own website for all to see. It will show up in Google searches and everyone that Google's your name or employer will know you see escorts. I am not lying, this has happened before. PM me and I can show you examples.
Although all escorts say they destroy your personal info, they don't. They save it in their contact lists, diaries, blackbooks, spreadsheets or just on their PC. If she uses an assistant, guess what. Her assistant has the info and is saving it as well.
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