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I hobby mostly on the road....
baby_one_more_time 36 Reviews 417 reads
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....these days, and there are pros and cons for both arrangements.  Obviously, if you have a spouse/SO, the risks are lower when traveling.  I almost always travel for work by myself, which gives me a lot of freedom.  When I hobby in my hometown, it has to be lunch hour or late afternoon meetups.  At lunch, I worry about the boss calling me; after work, I worry about the wife looking for me!  On the road, I've got less of those concerns -- sure, the boss or wife might call me, but the excuses are easier.

There's also the fact that I live in a podunk town, and almost always travel to bigger, more active cities for this hobby.  So the selection is much better!

Downsides: of course, if you only hobby when you travel, you have less opportunities for play (unless you're a real road warrior).  It also makes it much harder to develop a regular favorite, unless you return to the same city over and over.  So in a sense, I'm almost always seeing a girl for the first time.  That can be fun and exciting, but there's always the risk that I'll won't click with her, she'll no-show, etc. -- all the concerns that come from seeing someone you don't really know.

Guys, do you normally seek out providers when you travel, when you are at home, or both?  Anything influence your decision as to one or the other?

I just got back home from a fantastic trip to Vegas and first two experiences with lovely ladies.  Now that I'm home, however, the risk/reward calculation changes, and I'm considering only dating when I travel.  Perhaps I'll have to travel more often.

Mike

I used to tour every other week, because I refused to see locals. I still refuse to see them, but I focus on visitors when I actually work lol.

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I like having a Home Town Provider. Looking for a Provider when I'm on Vacation won't work for me. I don't know the area or the Providers. Would rather have a Provider where I live.

and I mainly use the TER ad boards to check out who is going to be where and when.

I do this for two main reasons: 1. Lower risk of "getting caught".  2.  I am afraid if I started to hobby when I was at home, I would go broke within 6 months (and get caught)!!

I hobby locally when I have the time. I live in a big city so it's easy to walk around invisible. On occasion I also hobby when I travel but only with really well reviewed ladies that have some presence on this board. I am getting to the point where I may only hobby with ladies I have seen before.  

Safer that way . . .

....these days, and there are pros and cons for both arrangements.  Obviously, if you have a spouse/SO, the risks are lower when traveling.  I almost always travel for work by myself, which gives me a lot of freedom.  When I hobby in my hometown, it has to be lunch hour or late afternoon meetups.  At lunch, I worry about the boss calling me; after work, I worry about the wife looking for me!  On the road, I've got less of those concerns -- sure, the boss or wife might call me, but the excuses are easier.

There's also the fact that I live in a podunk town, and almost always travel to bigger, more active cities for this hobby.  So the selection is much better!

Downsides: of course, if you only hobby when you travel, you have less opportunities for play (unless you're a real road warrior).  It also makes it much harder to develop a regular favorite, unless you return to the same city over and over.  So in a sense, I'm almost always seeing a girl for the first time.  That can be fun and exciting, but there's always the risk that I'll won't click with her, she'll no-show, etc. -- all the concerns that come from seeing someone you don't really know.

As a provider...I work mostly away from home town! just dont feel comfortable here especially hosting from my own place!

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