Help! I am disgusted.  I try my best to look good, although yes I do have my days that are not so good.  I try to accommodate and do a great job, however, I continue to get 6 and 7s although I have lowered my weight, I look generally better, geesh I have had 3 kids! What is a girl to do, should I consider surgery at this point because my weight goes less my score goes down? I thought I was looking better not worse.  This is discouraging and makes me want to quit.  Please someone help((

Your pictures look very good if they are current.  A point of contention is you do not show any tummy pictures & that maybe reason for disappointment.  I'm being honest & not trying to trash you here.  Now you mention having 3 children & recent weight loss & getting fit...  I applaud you for that.  I say keep up the good work.  There's no reason to apologize for having children.  The definition of MILF...  the M stands for MOM.  
I think you should be more revealing about front pictures...   I don't go by number grades but rather the words they represent.  7 is attractive.  Take care of yourself, try to look your best...  hair & skin do matter...   as much as "dieting" try to stay fit.  Walking or simple exercise can make a world of difference.  
More important to me than an abstract number is consistency.  I happily see 7's, 8's.  But I do not want to see swings to 2-3-4.  Wide swings make me suspect better reviews are fakes OR she only does well with some she 'clicks' with.  
You seem to be a well liked honest provider who delivers as promised.  That reputation is valuable.

don't give a few people the power to affect how you feel about yourself.  
   
You must be doing things right, because while a few rated you as they did... they all mention being repeat clients and referring others to you. I have to believe their actions speak louder than their words here...

surgery...  I think you look very nice.  Maybe take newer pics so the guys know exactly what thier getting.  I have seen your pics and I think they look very nice!!  If they are old pics it could be a little decieving.  But NO surgery, there are guys who WILL like you just the way you are!!  Have a great day sweetie!!!

I do not cater to guys who worship skinny gals.  I am naturally athletic, but not fat.  I will read the fellas the reviews prior to booking to ensure we are a good match.  If they love all natural curvy women with an asstastic backside I know we will have a great time. $ is not everything.  I was mad about the 7 I just received in looks, but the guy came back & stated he would take me out in public.  Not all reviews if honest will be 9/10's.  If you have 3 kids state the facts by advertising as a naughty MILF.  Being a mom is nothing to be ashamed of, but mommy make overs are available now if your interested in enhancing your natural beauty.  Most mommy make overs consist on breast & tummy surgery.  They are now more affordable & can be put on credit paying 1 low fee each month.

In fact, they state that you are wonderful, and recommended. Do not get caught up into the "10/10" mentality.. It is counterproductive, always have high standards of service, keep up with your personal image, exercise, gym, eat healthy but do not feel that you have to be 100 pounds to get the "high scores". The good scores are a combination of "beauty to the eye of the beholder" connection, performance, ambiance etc.. The great thing about this world is the variety of body types, races, services etc.. that gentlemen have to choose from.. Not everybody wants a super skinny girl, they want realness, caring attitude, professionalism, warmth, stellar service, genuine interaction etc...
Maybe getting new pictures would help you, consider even professional ones, some photographers are great with different body shapes, new photos always make you gain more confidence.. There is nothing sexier than a confident woman who is happy with her body!

You have about 80 reviews in a little over a year. You consistently get 5+ reviews a month. Not sure what the problem is.  
 
You are clearing getting a lot of business so what is your concern? Many girls here would be envious of your biz, frankly.  
 
Keep with the weight loss if YOU want but make sure you are eating healthy too. Don't starve yourself and do unhealthy things to possibly up your score by a point or so.
 
Seems like you are a little obsessed about your scores. They are what they are.  Let it go. Guys can't stand girls that moan about their scores so keep that in mind going forward.
 
Skip the surgery. There is risk there and your kids need you.

...at the same time you are recommending options for her to change her shape thru surgical procedures?  

...I think you look fine based on your photos. I can't see your face in them though there is one that shows it a little. I could be more specific if I could see your face completely. I'm not saying you should show it just that not being able to see it keeps me from being certain about your appearance. 7 is a good appearance rate. 6 isn't that far off. Your TER review average is 7 (6.99) appearance and 8.2 performance for an average of  7.6. That is good. Remember the average on the TER 1 to 10 scale is 5.  

I read a few of your reviews, and I looked at all of your ads listed and at your personal website - your reviews are GOOD, and assuming your pics are current, there is nothing wrong w/ you.  I'm not sure, given the way that TER rates / weighs reviews, that it is possible to consistently score 10 of 10 on reviews - DON'T worry about it!  You're my kinda woman!  I wish more providers had your body style, and you'd be on my list if you came to my part of the country!  Personally, given your reviews that I read, I think you are doing what you should and your clients seem happy, happy, happy!

....profession, the OP needs to learn to love herself as she is now, and to love herself if she chooses to change her looks down the road.  I became anorexic when I was fourteen, as I had size D breasts, and was looked at for all the wrong reasons (please, keep your stupid comments to yourself).  I preferred fellow class mates to view me as smart. My weight plummeted to a smidge above 72 pounds.  I am 5'6".  it was not pretty.  To this day, when I am stressed, I have to force myself to eat.

I would certainly give you a good review. If you were ever in the Minneapolis area and didn't mind seeing someone in a wheelchair you seem like you give a nice experience and great service and that the most important thing to me anyway. Don't let the bad apples get you down

and paying for her procedures 3xs over with those monthly payments!

I only checked the first 3 pages but there's a pattern scoring wise. Do you advertise anywhere else besides BP? Have you joined P411 and Date Check?

I'm only asking because even though you are getting the appts you are frustrated with your appearance scores. Try and broaden where you advertise. And I'm not saying drop BP just maybe find some other avenues to market yourself.

Even though this might be a bone of contention with some of the guys here, it's about your happiness and let's face it, getting some "really hot's" can make you feel better. Also you may want to make an investment in some professional (but not overdone photos). Image in this biz is very important $$ wise.

Keep exercising and chin up!

I only just noticed. I do hope that since a few days has passed you are feeling a lil better and your chin is held up a lil higher today....keep smiling beautiful. Here was what I had posted to you before someone pulled it and not sure if you ever got the chance to read it.......

Did you read her post at all, or mine?  I was clearly stating the facts & listing a few options since she said she was considering surgery.  Some of you boys are, so negative & post bs drama.  I am here to help.

Yep... well said. Guys who shop for bargains also seem to expect the most, and they live on sites like BP and USAG, which is why I avoid them like the plague.

cuz if your say advertising showing smaller pics than you are, then obviously your attracting the guys that want smaller and thus they arent gonna be givin a good score since that aint there thing.
                         ummmm. lets see.  
ok so you had 3 kids, and your improving your apearance, you feel. then what are they complaining about?
            hmm, are there other ladies with a similiar look getting much higher looks scores? can you see what they are doing different?
 hmmm. i know i feel that thigh highs and garter belt make me feel powerful and sexy. with matchn bran underwear to match the garter,  
 matching bra n underwear is probly one important thing, i d say, to look neat .  
 fake eyelashes i know i used to be a exotic dancer and at alexs and most clubs , especially cadilac lounge and desires, every girl had professional showfirl make up on, and dressed to the nines, one girl had huge rhinestone bands to hold her leg warmers up. most wear rhinestone chokers.
 have you looked at a local exotic dancer club and see what the local show girls are wearing?  
 i think wearing up to date fashions and apealing make up is of grave importance.  
i go to mac counter every so often with 150 bucks and have them create a look, you can ask for smoky bedroom eye, or porn star, or last yuear i bought all the colors, or a few, 150 will get you like three things or so, i bought the colors in the niki minaj clors she was modeling on thier advertisment hung in store on wal.  
i know for me i graduated cosmetology school, and in the miladys text book of cosmetology they have a whole chapter on dressing professional and how important your appearance is for your job. hairdressers and cosmetologist, they have to have the latest fashions in hair and make up and nice skin and all. {if you have acne and greasy hair i dont think you will alot of luck with clientelle seeking a facial or a hair cut or style!}  
and again if you have 1970 s polyester plaid pants and a dirty blouse on, again i wouldnt come to your salon, no one will.  
i would say purchase a gigig at home wax warmer, and practice waxing , make sure you have no hair on your belly, arms face , ass, pussy, or at best do the bikini line if you cant bite bullet and do a brazilian, but in this day n age, a brazilian is like a pre requesite, if you go a strip club no one has bushes any more, and watch porn, no one sportin wall to wall carpet.
for me i wont work if my nails or feet need manicuring or pedicuring, if i have any body hairs grown in and am do for wax. spray tan is also important, i mean its up to to you if your goin for a show girl sex goddess look or a pale , house wife look. i know for me i like to be tan flawless nail and make up and lingeraie, and the atmosphere has to be sexy.  
 the bed i do my appts on is facing a view of the ocean, and you can hear waves crash, so i think to methats pretty hot.
if i have to meet a guy in public though or am tryn to be discreet i do dress down , but once we get in the house i unwrap and have the glitter and sky high fmh {fuck me hard shoes on}
if you were in boston i d be interested in helping you with a sexy make over, i love playiong with make up and hair and clothes. xo i d  say if you feel your lookin better these days, just keep tryn to improve tiol you get the scores you deserve. i also think it takes quite a bit of money to get the things you need to looki better. i recently started buying stalking at agent provocateur, which i notice alot the the other girls wear too, there stalkings are 50 bux each. a air brush tan is with a regular tan also and the tip can be 100. goin to salon for full waxing for me is 100 {including tip}  
i know for me i think the stuff they expect of you, they dont realize how much all it cost, sometimes, and that sometimes, you havn three kids, i doubt you have time or funsds for that, you may have to drink red bull and start doin a few xtra massages every week, and get that money, and get the stuff you deserve.

i d say minus all the time  i spend on beauty care , primping, diet and excercize,  
 i am definetly a 5 or 6.  
i d have to say i am more than overwhelmed with joy to have an 8 average in looks. {my performance score average is also an 8}
 my looks plus perfromance averages are 8/8
but i feel you can take a girl who is a 6 and make her an 8 with the right clothes.  
my advice would be get yourself a pair of matching garter belt/bra/panty set from, viccy secret to start out with. {get the most expensive set with rhinestone lace glitter, the works. } always make a point to wear the full lingeraie ensemble for the session with matching heels.  
always make sure you drink a ton of water every day.  
 my most recent pics on my ad board post this week in boston. i got alot compliments on, { i drank and entire gallon of water that day and partial of it was herbal tea made with this "vanilla cinnamon clear complexion" herbal medicinal tea from the yogi tea brand.  
 and it definetly helped my face look better,
 you may not have to be born pretty to make your self pretty, with proper diet supplements, be careful with packaged processed foods thatl make face bloat and hide your bone structure.
there is a few herbal teas by yogi tea company that help your complextion glow, one is berry detox tea with burdock root in it, and the cinnamon vanilla clear complexion tea helps.  
then constantly drink water. i do seltzer water. and herbal teas. then take alot supplements,  
 biotin is very important for thick shiny hair.
dont eat rancid foods, that contain onion or garlic if your gonna do gfe that week.  
i only eat spicy or garlic or onion when i know i have no gfe appts for the week.  
make sure you make an effort. you can get 8 s in apearance just by putting the effort in with drinkin alot water , studying mae up tricks and application. i study tutorials non stop on you tube on make up techniques. {they have a cool one on how to do sophia loren make up, and one on how to do pin up model hair n make up, and some on poses pro models use, then many on super models diets and excercize routines.  
for me i discipline myself alot with my diet and beauty regime. yesterday i ate only raw fruit entire day to cleanse my system for summer. and jugs of water and the teas i told you about. then maybe 2 hours of walking /jogging with a weight on beach and doing light aerobic excerciz on the beach and alot of stretching, ... then spent entire day i did a micro dermabrasion treatment with the neutrogena home system, a biore charcol self heating mask, def use crest white strips alot or better yet get opalescence from dentist office { i did a barter with a dentist for mine}}.....
do a queen helene hot oil treatment once a week, . you can totally get the scores to an 8 , just put your entire being in dedication to beautifying yourself. ok see me next post....
 its funny this is me when i was a teenager. i keep it up at my apt and the clients never believe it is me.................
make sure you dont have to go pee, before you open the next thread responce i will post below this.  
 its me at 17 years ago.  
 i look older than i am now! and yes very very dorky.  
 i was definetly a 4........!!!!!! so to me getn an 8, i really am very accomplished feeling i have an 8 average in looks now, coming from some one who defiently worked at it to make myself improve in looks, as you can see by lookin at my old pics. go ahead and have a chuckle. on me.... it ok...............

Four to an eight with some major serious effort...!!!

Posted By: greektemptress

Help! I am disgusted.  I try my best to look good, although yes I do have my days that are not so good.  I try to accommodate and do a great job, however, I continue to get 6 and 7s although I have lowered my weight, I look generally better, geesh I have had 3 kids! What is a girl to do, should I consider surgery at this point because my weight goes less my score goes down? I thought I was looking better not worse.  This is discouraging and makes me want to quit.  Please someone help((

I checked your current photos on your web site to compare and I understand why people would be surprised the younger photo is really you. Wow. You are certainly hot now!

you a few marks away from an 8 in looks which i am. i see the most recent guy that gave you a bad score. you didnt deserve at all i agree. He also scored all others like wise, he is a low scoring pessimistic woman basher.  
 See how he gave every one a 6 or 7. ? if he doesnt think your super hot and out of his league, i am unsure why he is frequenting you for business in the first place. Obviuosly he expectations werent set too high since all he ever does is frequent ladies he feels are deserving of a 6.  
 you do look in shape and i feel like where i am an 8 in looks i am happy to say, i can agree your also not fairly scored, and you should like wise be 8 in looks like me, we are close in age, you dress awsome, you look clean and healthy and the photos there are a good variety and the incall looks neat.  
there is one pic that shows the top of the head and the hair looks plastered down, and thin and flat, i d say maybe make sure to flip your hair often and like fluff it up a tad with your hands so it doesnt look thin on top of scalp during appts or photos. .... that was one thing i saw that was maybe not so hot. then i d say 2 or 3 inch hair cut, the ends are straggly, and dead ends, { I am a hair dresser so please take heed i analyze every ones hair}
 i think the hair looks stiff too much product, doesnt look inviting to touch the hair, in pics, your definetly desrving of an 8 . though, i agree totally, 6 or 7, i think your not a 6 oir 7, but the hair needs some spicing up, have you ever tried straightening it? with a nice 2 inch trim? i think thats the answer there. i dont think the bod needs any help. its amazing for a girl my age, your doing awsome with keepin in shape, it gets harder as you get in mid thirties, so they gotta give it a brewak, for a gal in thirties your a 9, and me too but they are comparing us to god knows what? body builders? i agree when you have a family or other things sometimes eexcercizing all time isnt as easy as we want.  
i wanna see you flat iron your hair or just blow sry it and get more ooomph or volume up like near the crown of scalp. see that one pic it looks thinning and flat , its clearly a huge curly gorgeous main, your just not fluffing it up before the ppics, i always use a compact mirror and double check how my hair looks at every angle so i see what the clients are gonna see during reverse cowgirl and bj s. i d just double check in a mirror with a compact the hair, needs a trim, aside from that i think you seen low scoring guys that just seem to score low. i think when u see the guys that score well you l get some better scores,

thank you so much I would love a mommy makeup however $ is not in the works yet, as i have too many xpensives and not getting child support.  My exhusband ruined my credit so I am screwed, any suggestions? ((((

thank you I appreciate the positive remarks)

thank you so much)))

yes you are correct never even thought about it