I,m still a newbie virgin and I'm worrying about my first experience if it ever gets cheduled.  I have a small and bent peewee  due to some scar tissue that formed down there several years.  Don't k ow what caused but it got injured.  I'm. Afraid a provider might look down and laugh.  I have other issues too like coming to an orgasm.  Should I mention these things to a provider and maybe stick with an older mature provider.  I don't want to comee away with a bruised ego too!

How do I say this...
She is not going to laugh at you. We don't care what it looks like. To be frankly honest we only care you put the donation on the dresser before we begin.

If you have trouble "getting there" then I'd suggest scheduling a longer session. Some providers will boot you out after your time is up even if you did not finish. Also your first few times you will be so nervous that it won't be odd at all not to finish!

If you don't know what caused the injury is it possible the condition is Peyronie's disease and not an injury. Peyronie's Disease is actually a condition and not a disease. The result is a bent penis. I'm told it's from calcium build up. It ranges from not very noticeable to very noticeable.  There are treatments. Your doctor could tell you about them. It doesn't necessarily cause problems with intercourse but it can cause many problems.

Sure talk to the provider about it. Most likley they would prefer to talk about anything specific at the start of the first visit. Not sure how you could cover this in e-mail or phone as most don't want specifics discussed that way. I'm sure some providers could give advice here on how to communicate this.

I agree with harbor_view® with respect to finding a mature, well reviewed provider, that has a proven track record of professional performance. I don't think you will have anything to worry about if you do.

until recently I was taking frequent medical drug injections...  self infecting is no fun BTW...  but I made a quick mention of it so providers would not freak out at the bruising.   (One provider showed me her medical injection bruising...  we had a good laugh.)  
I also have some nerve damage from an injury...  when I started out, I made a brief mention when we were alone...  the lady said it would not be a problem & it wasn't.    
I'm sure no provider will laugh.  They have seen it all.  I would start out with the "hot MILF" catagory, rather than youngest providers.  
You should have this fully worked up by a Urologist MD.  If it's serious enough to concern you, it's serious enough to know what the cause is & what your treatment options are.  A buddy had a similar condition & was successfully treated while we were in college.

Are you sure it is an injury it can be the mentioned issue also not to worry you but it could be other things as well , some more serious than others including an enlarged prostate can cause your penis to make a left turn, a buldge in your penis making it appear bent can be a STD in some cases,although  I am not saying you have one. Also if in fact you have a calcified deposits in your memember as xyz has suggested it is entirely possible you are forming these elsewhere in your body as well such as vascular sytem you need a work up .God forbid you have a health related event while with a girl regadless of maturity she is going to shit a pickle.You maybe very lucky if in the case of an event she has the right reaction and calls for help. Good luck Lianna

Thanks for the advice.  Yes, I was told it was Peyronie's but I thought I had read it could be caused by hard sex where you might have injured it and then fibrous scar tissue formed.  I have had intercourse with it since but some positions are difficult because its so damn short.  I guess it would be great for anal sex since its not so big.  One provider didn't say it didn't matter to her.

I'm replying to this because I think the information might be helpful to others.  I have had it all checked out and its not a STD or anything serious, just embarrassing when I'm with a woman the first time.  You know how we guys are.  Peyronies is a rare thing that happens to men in their 40s-60s.  I've had shots in it trying to soften the scar tissue.  I thought maybe I masturbated too much.  Anyway, it was painful for awhile but got better.  Must have shortened it by an inch, bummer.

If you've not already seen a doctor about your condition you need to do so.  I would think that should take priority above scheduling with a provider.  With some injuries to the penis it just gets worse over time.  

As others have already said, it would probably be best to schedule with a well reviewed and more experienced provider.

Makes sense about the calcium deposits.  I have had two kidney stones that were calcium based but now I take something for it.  I do get regular blood tests to watch the calcium.  That was funny, "shit a pickle".

Yours and Harborviews  opinion . That proved to be a good opinion.  Thanks.