You are going to have to learn to live with it. My atf says she gets about 100 emails a day. She ignores a lot of them. just keep trying

The above advice seems fairly solid.  I'm wondering what has been your requested date/time to meet?  Have you been giving them enough lead time?  I would imagine that you'd get more responses with at least a week's lead time.  Yeah, it's a bitch to wait.  But it gives the provider a better sense that you're serious and not a waste of her time.  Plus, she'll have time to check out your info.  As the others have said, a lot of these girls get tons of email so you need to examine what you say (and what you don't say).  Putting the wrong thing in or leaving the right thing out makes it easy for them to ignore you.  You need to re-examine what you're doing, and this was a good first step.  Good luck.

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Phone calls are better in most cases.  Although some girls prefer email.  I would try calling first and then email also as a backup.  More than 50% won't get back to you though, it's a shame they turn down money, but that's their problem.  I prefer girls who have the communication part worked out well, seems to me that their more professional.

No, It is not just you!

I went through the same scenario you described when I first began to hobby. I would send out emails and get no response.

Use the cellphone and save yourself a lot of grief. Try to set your appointments for the next day or so and be as specific as you can as to the time of your desired meeting.

My experience again is that if you are talking vaguely about getting together sometime in the near future you probably will not be taken to seriously.

As you get more experienced and meet with a number of providers you can usually have same day appointments.

There are a number of providers I now see regularly and I can often see them within an hour of my call. If one can't meet or has an appointment, I call another. This is mainly due to my own schedule. When I have a brief opening, I call until someone says yes.

Also, read the new reviews each day and make a list of ladies you might want to see. Then begin to work the list. Give yourself more opportunity to succeed. If one lady can't meet put her on the list to call again on a different day.

Good luck.

I have had no problems. I am new at this too. But, every provider I have contacted (6 of them) has reponded back to me within a reasonable amount of time. I think the key is to not be suspicious, be courteous, short and too the point in your communications and provide whatever verification info is asked for.

Hello..I actually prefer email for advanced appts.  I answer my emails promptly.  Why? Because I am available. this is my employment so I have to reply to emails, and its easy to check emails. When I am on the computer for something else, its very quick easy step to jump over to emails.  

 Take Care..Sidney Starr