It depends on your tolerance for risk. #1 hobbyist rule is to see well reviewed ladies like youself. My next trip to Boston I would feel comfortable reaching out to you because you are established. You should expect no less from those who seek your company. They need references, or willing to provide personal info or should at least take the time to join a verification site. While you might have had luck meeting gents cold call, like all things eventually your luck may run out.
Just my 2 cents
I have so many guys that aggressively continue to book with me, i have spoke on phone , i keep thinkn bout it butthen back out, they will have zero provider references. then questionable employement references. .
I am wondering if searchin them on intelus could be some form of sceening, i never used to screen, i if weary would meet them some where before bringing them to my hotel to sort of see if i got good vibes, and believe it or not i met so many good guys this way, and i still know alot them and they do not fill out forms or subject them selves tobeing screened, but turned out to be good clients.
does any one have any suggestions on screening guys whom r willing to give real first n last and age, and then spome employement info, how i can do some light screening of some kind for a newbiei d like to book for a massage?
It depends on your tolerance for risk. #1 hobbyist rule is to see well reviewed ladies like youself. My next trip to Boston I would feel comfortable reaching out to you because you are established. You should expect no less from those who seek your company. They need references, or willing to provide personal info or should at least take the time to join a verification site. While you might have had luck meeting gents cold call, like all things eventually your luck may run out.
Just my 2 cents
I ACTUALLY HAD ONE GUY RIP INTO ME VIA EMAIL SAYING , WELL LUCKY FOR YOU , YOU LET THE PTHER LADIES TAKE THE RISK, CONCERNING MY REQUEST FOR 2 PROVIDER REFERENCES. SO I WAS THINKING THERE MUST BE SOME OTHER WAYS LADIES ARE SCREENING . I GUESS I WILL JUST IGNORE ALL THE GUYS AGGRESSIVELY SUBMITTING 7 EMAILS A DAY AND SOMETIMES TRYING TO BOOK MULTIPLE TIMES I HAVE RECODNIZED ONE MANS VOICE USING TWO DOFFERENT NUMBERS, HAD MAYBE SLIGHT JEWISH ACCENT IT WAS VERY EASY TO REMEBER HIS VOICE, HE CONTACTED ME ONCE USING A FUNERAL HOME AS A REFERENCE, THEN CONTACTED ME USIN DIFFERENT NUMBER WITH SOME ROCK BAND TOUR SCHEDULE WHICH WAS 100 PERCENT FABRICATED IT WAS A WEB PAGE DESINED IN 2013 AND HE APPARENTLY IS TOURING CEMETARIES. HMM, ITS OVERWHELMING HOW ANGRY THE GUYS GET WHEN I TELL THEM JUST A FIRST NAME, LAST NAME AND A PHONE NUMBER FOR A PLACE OF EMPLOYEMENT WHERE I CALL AND SPEAK WITH THEM, {SINCE THEY ARE THE MANAGER RIGHT?} I DONT GET HOW THEY ARE FLIPPIN OUT ONME, WHEN IT SEEMS EVERY LADY ON TER SCREENS.
SOME EVEN REQUIRE I HAVE SEEN FORMS WHERE YOU CAN FILL IN 4 PROVIDER REFERENCES, SOP WHY ARE SO MANY GUYS FLIPPING OUT ON ME FOR SCREENING? THAT ONE GUY JUST THIS MONTH, I MEAN THE EMAIL WAS SO PSYCHO HE WAS LIKE" WELL CONVENIENT FOR YOU MISSY- YOU REQUIRE 2 PROVIDER REFERENCES , SO YOUR MAKN THE OTHER LADIES TAKE THE RISKS?" AND HE LIKE TOTALLY SPAZZED ON ME, . ITS NUTS HOW ANGRY GUYS GET AT ME THAT I AM SCREENING NOW.
LUCKILY ONE MY X BF WHOM ALSO WELL HELPS ME OUT, I DONT THINK I D CALL HIM A CLIENT, BUT, HE SAID HE D HELO ME BY PAYIN HALF MY RENT EVERY MONTH, IN INCRIMENST BUT WITH CHECK, AND HE MADE IT CLEAR I WILL HAVE TO WORK FOR IT! {HE LOVES GREEK} HAHAH! BUT WELL AT LEAST I WONT BE TEMPTED TO BE CARELESS BEACUSE I AM TRYIN TO MAKE MY RENT , AND END UP GETN KILLED OR PINCHED, SO I AM GLAD ONE MY FRIENDS STEPPED UP TO BAT N I AM NOT GONNA BE IN SUCH A OVERWHELMING SITUATION, I HAVE BEEN TRYIN TO ET HOTELS ONE DAY AWEEK, AND ITS LIKE NO GUYS WANNA COME WHEN I HAVE THE ROOM, I POST THE SCHEDULE N STILL I GET 15-20 GUYS A WEEKS THAT CANT SEEM TO CALL ON THE 2 DAYS I HAVE THE HOTEL,
I HAVE HEARD OTHER LADIES SAY THAT THEY HAVE HARD TIME IN BOSTON GETN GUYS TO COMMIT TO A SCHEDULE, I CAN SEE THATS TRUE,
I don't blame the guys for aggressively trying to book with you.
I just checked out a few of your reviews and site, and I would try to book with you too if I was in Boston.
Anyways, your safety is most important.
If your instincts tell you something is fishy, you should trust them. They are usually correct.
There are lots of ways to search someone's name online and find information about them, but the issue now becomes whether they gave you their actual name or not.
Sometimes employment verification is not easy if they don't have a work line or office job.
For the most serious of clients (those who are respectful, conduct themselves well through communication and not too pushy), you could go back to your method of meeting them before bringing them to your place.
Other than that, you won't know for sure if they supplied their real name unless you ask to see their ID before the appointment starts, and it might be too late at that point if they are an unsafe person.
You are just VERY VERY lucky nothing has happened to you yet. Once you screen you will never go back..it weeds out the time wasters and the bad clients you don't want to deal with. If they aren't willing to give their info to a lady with 5+ reviews then that is a red flag!
You will meet good clients, but without screening you will meet the worst of the worst. In some places, certain rip off clients prey on the new girls and the girls who don't screen as they know they can continue to get away with it with these ladies.
I ask for real full names(middle name or initial included), age, and a phone number in their name. EVERYONE is online these days...yes even a retired 65year olds.
PM me and I can help to get you started and link you to some verification sites.
the only thing I remember giving up was my land line number (not to call) which I presume she did reverse lookup. That can lead to a lot of information... which can be cross checked.
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