So I am getting ready for my first experience, and my question is, the rate that is listed- is that all you pay, or do you tip? If so, how much (%)?

Yes, the rate posted is what is expected. Tips, on the other hand is an individual thing. Since, most state that tips are appreciated, but not expected. Personally I do tip and bring gifts on certain occasions. (birthday, x-mas)

bring a gift, usually a gift bag with some body lotions from a boutique.

And I look forward to wanting to show the lady my appreciation for what she has done at the end of our date, I mean she put up with me, didn't she?

So I have something extra ready to give. If she hits a home run I am going over 100, for sure.

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........always tip double the donation!   MEOW!!

I certainly don't expect tipping, but it's always nice when someone puts a little something extra in the envelope. But, please! Don't feel you have to tip.  

Everything listed on a website should be inclusive, unless she has different donations listed for unusual items such as: dominatrix, anal, well . . . you get the idea. Remember, every woman is different. Review her website carefully, and if you have questions outside of the normal donations listed, then ask her.

Good luck, darlin'!

Hugs,
Ciara

haha I wish this was the case!

I have been tipped $10, as well as double the donation. Also, I have received gifts from friends. Some bring me gifts every time they see me. I love this treatment! However, such treatment is never expected, though appreciated. The biggest gift or tip I could receive from a friend is his being respectful of me. Everything else is just a plus!

Tip her if you would like to do so. If you do not tip her, she should be more than satisfied with receiving her donation.

Xoxo,
Gia

I would recommend you see a few ladies for variety. After sometime, if you feel like you really connected with one, book another appointment with her. However, remember this is P4P.

To some gentlemen, $10 is a lot. Imagine for three months they saved up to afford and see the lady of their choosing. In their case, leaving an extra $10 whether intentional or not is not an insult. Not everyone can play freely as those with the big bucks.

Now, if a gent can afford to leave a tip and he leaves $10, yes it can be an insult. Why bother. However, any tip is appreciated. $10 will help me with gas. I will not complain. $10 will help me with today and tomorrow's groceries. I will not complain. However, a tip of double my hourly rate will help me with a LOT!!!!!

Winks and giggles!

Do not tip her. Just have fun, "do" her and pay the donation requested...unless you would like to be super nice, then tip her.

Have fun!

Xoxo,
Gia

So if I enjoy myself, I always leave a tip. Its usually an extra $50. I always do this after though. I sure hope I'm not making her feel cheap. I mean it is P4P right?

I always get return requests sometimes by phone or email. So I think the ladies are not feeling disrespected by me. Never though that I might make someone feel that way though.

From the ladies... does it really 'cheapen' things if I throw an an extra $50 on the envelope???

Let me say this, ladies are happy that they receive an inquiry from you. They are ecstatic you are not a weirdo and are able to swap a few more emails before meeting. Likewise, they are happy that they think they sealed the deal (always hoping a NCNS will not occur). They hope to meet with someone who will not demonstrate such rude behavior. As a gentleman, you do not do so or cancel of course. You are a gentleman. When she meets and sees in person that you are exactly who she wants to meet (e.g. a respectful gentleman), she will be relieved and happy. There is no need for a tip. However, if you leave an extra tip of any kind (e.g., $10, $20, $500), providers are happy. You are appreciated either way...tip or not.
Sweet Kisses,
Gia

But I rarely tip on the first visit because the envelope is given up front.  I then usually tip the next visit based on how I was treated the last time.  A tip is supposed to mean something so not sure it should be expected ahead of time.  But also, you should never feel bad about not tipping.  Most ladies understand that we each have our own financial circumstances, and they may vary visit to visit.  All have asked a fair rate to begin with.  The good ones will never worry about the tip and I would be shocked if any ever use it as a factor in seeing someone again or how they treat you.  Being clean, respectful, fun, and want to see her again will mean more.

I have received tips from $10 and up and never have expected it rather he tips or not I try to go above and beyond for the repeat clientele. The tip I would love is being respected,fun and clean person.

... I believe in being upfront about what I expect... it's up to you if you want to tip, and always appreciated.  Plus, it helps if you tip nice, because if you see her again she'll remember and you'll get it back next time.