There are some providers that to me are extremely attractive. Sometimes I get hard just looking at their website. But before signing up for their services sometimes I feel intimated by their beauty. Would I be better off going to less attractive providers first and build up my confidence there so I won't feel this way with the more attractive providers.

When I decided to start paying for sex I also decided it was because I wanted to be with beautiful and exotic women that I would not have a shot with unless I was paying.  I can't tell you what will work for you but my experience has been that the envelope full of cash on her dresser pretty much eliminates any performance anxiety that I might encounter if had to impress a woman with nothing more than my charm, personality and bedroom skills...

PS, if I don't get hard looking at a gals website she doesn't make the cut!

until you get your confidence where it should be.  The whole idea is to do whatever works for you, brings you pleasure and satisfies your expectations.  If you can do that better with a "7-8" than a "10", then by all means, see the woman that makes you feel most comfortable.

As a separate issue, a lot of times the women that aren't quite top-tier beauties try harder and can give you a more enjoyable experience.  I think a lot of people on this board have been disappointed by the 22 year old with the perfect face and figure.  

Remember, pay-for-play flips the usual male/female paradigm- because when you pay, it IS all about you.  The ladies are there to please you and send you home happy.  You pay them for this service.  So that means only you can define what that will be, and you should make your choices accordingly.

I would see the most beautiful lady I could who had reviews which indicate that she enjoys her work and is a good conversationalist. You'll feel at home in no time!

Honestly if you are new to this, you probally will be nervous seeing any lady. Dont waste your money, spend it on a lady that waves your flag!! Have fun sweetie!

Kisses, Sidney Starr

who was rated consistantly a 7 / 9  than a 9 /7.
But that's just me.

I rate performance over appearance.  When I do a search to find new talent or in an area I haven't been to, I will enter a 7 in appearance and an 8 in performance.  Then I pick from those that have a realistic price point.

If you are asking should you spend 5 big ones to see a girl with 9's and 10's in appearance vs. 3 C's for a girl with 8's and 9's then my response is: (1) see the 8/9 girl for either 2 appointments or a longer appointment.

If the price point is the same, then go for the guesto and see the 9/10 gal.

Why fuck some of these porcine providers at any price?

I don't understand spending $$$ on girls that aren't gorgeous???!

You can run your flag up my pole any time.


Thank You
2010 = 28

...quite "robotic".  


See who you want...and don't worry about her looks! If she is well reviewed,  and has a pleasant personality on the board,  you should go for it!  Age too, plays a role..

Good luck!!!

The way I look at hobbying is that it is the search for the ultimate woman.  Someone who is beautiful, intelligent, charming, can carry on a nice conversation (a lot of sexual stimulation is between the ears) and offers the activities I like (GFE with a little PSE thrown in from time to time).

Don't be intimidated.  Enjoy the quest!