I am an older guy, and I understand your feelings about time-wasting looking for someone to take to bed.  Many providers will not see you because of your age, that is an oft-repeated discussion.  However, if you look around enough, you will find someone that will.

Agency girls, I think, are more likely to see someone of your age since the girls really don't get to pick and choose who they see, as much as an indie girl would.  In any case, you will have to do some research to find a provider, just as we all do.

Good luck,
Swim

To that end, write to some providers whom you think you would like to meet, and give the same impression to them that I get from your post.

Gals are impressed when someone writes with good English skills and makes a compelling argument, while also being polite and well mannered.

You'd be surprised what you might find will happen.

The pen is mightier than the sword, and all that.

I'm a 25yo male and have thought about seeing an escort for quite some time.  I'm sick of wasting my time at the bar, or at a club, or anywhere else only to come back home completely unsatisfied.

I think that I'm better off having my needs taken care of by seeing someone where there's a mutual understanding.

Personally, I don't feel weird about doing this, but to the professional ladies in this industry, would you typically see someone that's my age?

Are there any providers who can be considered MILFs that will cater to someone of my age?

but at the same time, I can think of a lot of reasons I'd have been better off seeking professional companionship in my past.  It would probably save time, money & your liver to see provider.

That said, you should be aware that it is very easy to "fall for" a lady you have great sex with...  that's hormonal & will pass.  I tend to rotate Favorite ladies to help keep my balance.   Good sex can be d*mn habit forming.  You'll have to establish a budget.  NEVER hobby with rent, food or bill money.  It's got to come from discretionary income.  

You should remain open to civie relationships...  people who you have some common interest with.  You may have an easier time of it since you will not be horny out of your mind...   Having some sexual skills & being well practiced gives a sence of confidence that can help a relationship if / when you decide to go that way.  

You need to know that this will be a secret life.  You should still observe protocalls about separate hobby phones & e-mail addresses.  If you become interested in someone on the civie side, it's easier if you do not have tracks to clean up.   You must never tell anyone outside of here...  not your brother, your best friends, not your crew...   You never know when some drunk or ex-buddy will blurt something stupid out.  A secret is only a secret when one person knows.  (I'd tell you but then I'd have to kill you!)
If in the future you should find yourself contemplating a civie relationship...  you can say you've had girl friends before.  You just never say how long they were your girl friends for.  The new girl does not need to know.  

This activity is not for everyone...  it might or might not be for you.   If you find it is not or no longer suits your needs then you will know & can stop.    

Best wishes,
skb

Thanks for the advice, shudaknownbetter, I'll definitely keep all that in mind.

but I am one MILF who is newbie and young man friendly!  whooo hoooo!

As long as I can screen and verify you, it's on!

I'm in the NJ/NYC area, ScarlettKiss.  I looked at your website and it seems you're too far away from me....

Yes unfortunately.  I will be in Hershey PA on Sept 26th, but still too far!  
Good luck to you though.  I am sure you will find someone.  
Join the verification sites to get yourself started.  
And most of all be safe but have fun!

The first time I saw a provider I was 25 also. I was really nervous my first time, and my age really showed.

But as one Hobbist mention, this is secret life style we live.  What you want to do is.........
1. Get a trac phone,
2. Get hobbist e-mail
3. Get Hobbist Name "Jerry Blackman"
4. Have a set budget on how much you wanna spend per month. (please don't use your rent money)
5. Never take your wallet with your personal info to a providers room.

Also don't replace seeing providers as an escape from having a real relationship. Seeing proivders may actually help your confidence in talking to women.

As a provider I see men of all ages.

Most my clients are 40+(I am 21) however I do get younger clients. I don't mind age at all as long as they are respectful and pay the dues. Young guys near my age or refreshing sometimes because I get extra hot because I have things in common with them or I find them "bf cute" (cute like a guy I would date in real life...but not to really date them)

I'd find a relatively new provider or a MILF who advertises for younger men.

I had and still have many civvy options, but unless you want a woman who is looking for a permanent man, providers are infinitely better choices. The important concern for you is understanding your rationale for seeing a provider instead of trying to date civvies.

Shuda gave some sage advice. Having encounters with providers will allow you to view potential civvy relationships with a clearer head, you will have a better chance of picking a civvy who is right for you. Like Shuda warned, tell NO ONE. Keep your tracks well covered.

I'm not sure what you're looking for, but I'm more than happy to meet with men of any age, as long as they're respectful! I figure, hey, you know what you want, and have the balls to go get it.

A couple of things to think about. I'm new to the hobby aswell and also under the 30yo mark. Personally I don't think your age matters as much as your attitude toward your provider.

These are women and should be treated like such. Women don't want to be treated like a piece of meat, well the good ones anyways who don't like being abused. So the better you treat her, the better she'll treat you. Go to www.perkel.com/escorts and reabiotech from begining to end. It is very insiteful and there is alot more stuff on there you can read and get more comfortable with the idea of how to treat your provider like the women she is, the queen ofcourse. But also think about your provider in the sence of a date. You don't need to focus on her top when you need to focus on her face and what she's saying. The top will come off when she wants it to regaurdless so get to know her and let her work up the comfort level she needs to have that comfortable te with you.

Many men in our age group have a hard time finding women our own age (20 to 30) due to many different reasons. But what ever the reason, hobbyism is deffinately a better way to go then to just get frustrated sexually and develope a complex because of it making us even more unattractive to the oposite sex. And although this may be an obvious statement, but it is true to the end, you can attract bees with viniger. So having a provider in your life may even help you. But don't be discouraged if you don't find one as quickly as you would like. All good things take time. Also take a look at the discussion board for as long as you can stand it. Alot of good helpful advice is on here.

I wish you luck my hobbyist in arms. Best wishes
NewHobbyGuy12

I've seen a few guys near my age range (19-21) ..... pretty much, young and older are all looking for some fun. 25 seems pretty "normal" to me.


Sure there are plenty picky about guys under 35 or under 30 or under 25 but there are just as many like moi who as long as you're over 18 then you're good just as long as you act like you have some sense in my presence lol.

Hey, don't worry about it. I am 19 years old and I've already had the pleasure of seeing 6 providers. They were all from agencies.

I still haven't gotten a no from a provider because I ussually go to the same agency and I am already known with them.

As you notice most hobbyist such as myself are 40 and over.  I just turned 40.  Why do I hobby, because after 17 years of marriage, just trying variety. I'm still very new to hobbying as well.  Don't give up on dating and trying to find a GF.  If you are a fairly good looking guy, you don't need to resort in paying for sex!  Once you start, most likely you will be hooked.  Once hooked, you're going to have even a hard time a real relationship as you will compare any potential GF to your ATF provider.