There have only been a handful of providers I've been interested in spending an overnight with, and that was after establishing a much longer rapport over a number of shorter visits.
I have never done an overnight for a first time date myself, but I have booked a longer than usual date with a well reviewed provider thinking it was going to be fantastic experience.
Really due to no fault of her own, it wasn't.
There is always the very real possibility of a personality mismatch. The conversation was awkward, our physical timing was uncomfortable and I could tell she was still trying to get a read on me since it was our first date. The date wasn't a disaster but I found myself wishing I had booked less time.
On the other side of it, provider friends of mine have shared that they will NOT do on overnight with a first time client for similar reasons mentioned above, but also for safety.
I think at least one or two "getting to know you" appointments will serve both parties well and make everyone enjoy the experience that much more.
Anyone ever do an overnighter with a lady they have never met? If she has good reviews and if someone else recomends her I think it would be ok. Are ladies even comfortable with meeting with a guy they have never met for an overnight? I guess if the 2 wern't clicking-they could always cut the meeting short.
Bad for you-- you get there, you've reserved her entire night, you don't like her... now what? Pay her anyway and leave? Pay her a cancellation fee and leave? And what would be fair for an 8-10 hour date that you're cutting to 1-2 hours? Puts you in a really awkward situation.
Bad for her, the same as all the above.
Save $$$$ overnights for someone you really know and like.
I'm getting ready to do just that with someone I have never met.. I am a very infrequent hobbyist so I like the long durations of time with someone. I have done this before..
But as Mr Fisher states, I have done the same thing.. Emailing back and forth for weeks of time so you can get to know the person... Not all providers are email chatty though for obvious reasons. But if you are fortunate enough to establish an email communication and get to know the provider, I find the experience much more wonderful.
I also did EXTENSIVE research on my choice. Email thru TER those that have reviewed the girl and ask questions!!!
12 (or more) hours is a LOT of time (and money) to devote to someone you've never met, and it can be a bad experience for both the lady and the gentleman. I prefer to meet for a shorter date first, preferably with dinner, so I know we won't completely hate each others' company.
You're right -- if we're not clicking, the date can be cut short, but that's inevitably an awkward conversation, and someone's probably going to end up with hard feelings related to finances. Better to not risk it.
ok so it sounds like it would be alright if you both went and had dinner first and you both liked each other enough to extend it to an overnight. As long as you both know going into it that it might only be a couple hour dinner date or if all goes well a overnight stay. That way the guy isn't out alot of money if he doesn't want to extend
For example, since I have a regular job and classes most of the year, I can only schedule overnights on particular evenings, and therefore have to plan them well ahead of time. I don't like waking up at the crack of dawn and having to rush out the door with just a goodbye peck on the cheek. Other ladies may need to get back to babysitters, pets, or other commitments (possibly even needing to get to another date, or just want to be rested enough for another date in the morning).
Definitely discuss the *possibility* of extending with her -- it really can't hurt -- but if you agree to that scenario make sure both of you fully understand that it's not a set-in-stone plan either way.
Most of my overnights are with people I have met. Occasionally there is invitation for one from gentleman I have not met. In this case I usualy propose dinner date with option to extend to overnight.
An overnight is not simply a marathon fuck session. There will be down time, meal time, sleep time and quite possibly some alone time requirement as well No matter how much fun the sex is you are going to have to find some other common ground in the compatibility department. Also, expect to pay the lady for the full fee even if you decide to "cut it short".
As previous posts have pointed out, this is not a good idea. I reserve overnights for ladies that I really connect with. One of the posts mentioned a dinner date, with the possibility of it turning into an over nite. As long as you discuss this with the lady and she fully understands, that sounds like a good idea. Talk to the lady try the dinner date, and see what happens.
I've done that a couple of times over the years, one was with an non-reviewed lady, had a date for the typical 1hr and was asked if I would like to extend to an overnighter, was thinking with my little head and said yes, it turned out great, we clicked - I lucked-out.
The other overnighter on a business trip with a lady also never met before, but exchanged a weeks worth of emails, well lets just say, a Colonoscopy would've been more stimulating, was business like/formal the entire night, again was thinking with my little head - not good.
The moral; research, read her reviews and again, ask questions, book a 1hr first and see if you like each others, then plan for an overnighter.
However, I would not recommend it to someone else. I had PM'd, emailed, etc for long time before setting it up. The norm is that you don't want to do an overnight with a provider you have not seen for an hour/2 hour date previously. I got lucky, what can I say????? She was awesome........
There have only been a handful of providers I've been interested in spending an overnight with, and that was after establishing a much longer rapport over a number of shorter visits.
I have never done an overnight for a first time date myself, but I have booked a longer than usual date with a well reviewed provider thinking it was going to be fantastic experience.
Really due to no fault of her own, it wasn't.
There is always the very real possibility of a personality mismatch. The conversation was awkward, our physical timing was uncomfortable and I could tell she was still trying to get a read on me since it was our first date. The date wasn't a disaster but I found myself wishing I had booked less time.
On the other side of it, provider friends of mine have shared that they will NOT do on overnight with a first time client for similar reasons mentioned above, but also for safety.
I think at least one or two "getting to know you" appointments will serve both parties well and make everyone enjoy the experience that much more.
I have ended up spending the entire night with many a lady that I have met for the first time, both civvies and providers, but to schedule an entire night with a woman you have never met is a recipe for disaster.
No matter how well you get along via phone or email, you never know what kind of chemistry you are going to have once you actually meet. Why put that type of pressure on either of you? I think scheduling overnighters with a complete stranger is a horrible idea, and many if not most providers won't even do it if you ask. The smart ones at least. lol
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Other ladies may need to get back to babysitters, pets, or other commitments (possibly even needing to get to another date, or just want to be rested enough for another date in the morning).