I am going to post this anonymously to protect the discretion of the lady. I am also going to let her know about it, and if she wants to reveal herself in a reply, the decision is hers.

I see posts about the providers who go “the extra mile”.  I am very new to this hobby, and I did not expect that I would so soon find a lovely lady who would go the extra mile for me.  I met this lady for the first time recently.  The session was much fun and all items on the menu were sampled. I had arranged for more than one hour so there was plenty of time. The lady also told me not to worry about the clock, she knows she likes to talk and was not worried about running over.  No problem on my end!  So the fun continued with one small problem for me, I could not finish.  She tried several techniques with no result. Finally she said, I have one more appointment booked tonight for only one hour.  If you want to come back later, I will make sure you finish but I will not charge you for the time. (Imagine the expression my face!!)  She also said she needed to take a break for food before her next client, would I care to join her.  So I said only if she would let me pay for the meal (and by this time, I was hungry too).  This lead to some appreciation kissing, cuddling, etc and the next thing I knew it was time to brush up on French lessons.  In due time, the finish line appeared on the horizon and I reached my goal.  SUCCESS.   Time for a quick wipe down, helped her straighten the room and we both got dressed. Then her phone rang, her next was running late.  So we were able to enjoy a nice leisurely snack (the real food kind) and I happily picked up the check.  And she even suggested that she has some friends I might want to meet, including some that I had already been considering based on their reviews/websites.

So what did I learn?
1)YMMV may always be true, but treat the lady with respect and she will notice, and the odds will move into your favor
2)Registering with Room Service 2000 was worth the cost
3)Do your research on TER. This lady had good reviews and now I know why (and she will be getting one more very soon)
4)There are some truly classy ladies in this business.  Luckily, I found one

Bringing a list of items that you want her to perform would not help; if you let her do her job you'll get better service. . . unless all you care about is the act and not the connection.