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Almar80 4 Reviews 2333 reads
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Some more questions for you all:

1) How do you dress to go visit a provider?  I get the impression that many are in a dress shirt and tie.  I'm a t-shirt and jeans type of guy.  Am I going to have to start dressing up only to soon dress down?  I would also think jeans and t would blend in better than a suit.

2) Wondering if I should somewhere in communication with a provider/agency mention that I only have 1 testicle (one removed due to cancer).  I would think it would be a bit of a pause in the middle of things if not previously known.  I just wonder how to bring it up/inform about it without being in the territory of mentioning of "activities".  "Yes I would like to see so and so at such and such time, oh and I have one testicle..." lol
I suppose I could also insert my question of how/when do you mention that it would be your first time (on both accounts) also using discretion.

swimtrekr1028 reads

unless it's colder that a motherfucker, I am normally dressed in t-shirt or 'Magnum PI' shirt and shorts.  Colder months, flannel shirt, jeans.

Unless you think the missing nut affects your performance, why mention it?  She will notice it if she goes down playing with the boy(s).

Florida is casual.....

Swim

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EvenManlyMenWearCologne1264 reads

1) There's no dress code for seeing a provider but you should at least dress presentably and appropriately for the situation. A suit and tie would certainly seem like a good idea for a dinner date to a nice restaurant but is probably overkill just for a quick incall unless that's what you normally wear anyway. Shirt and jeans can be more than okay if you're still presentable and not slovenly. Myself, I try to dress fashionably for the first visit to make a good impression (I just think any lady would be more inclined to show you a good time if you look snappy lol).

2) I think more experienced people here on the board can answer that question better than I can but I would think that'd be better said after you meet. It would be very awkward to talk about it beforehand and would likely be regarded as taboo to say since it implies sexual contact. It's bad form to mention anything that implies sexual activity over the phone - better to discuss it once you're already in private.

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mrfisher956 reads

I'm old school, and have a closet full of suits and ties.

I used to wear same when going out to fine restaurants in the evening, but the last time I did some fifteen years ago, a patron came up to me while I was waiting for my table and began to complain to me about the cleanliness of the men's room.

That's when I switched to sports coat and casual shirt.

sigh.

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fallonkelly942 reads

Your clothes are clean, they fit well, and are somewhat in fashion.  

I'm sure everyone knows these already but it can't hurt to mention:

Don't wear a leisure suite and white loafers from the 70's.  

I would also add, don't wear clothes that could be stereotypical of a street gang et cetera.  

No du rags!  

Dress for the occasion.  Don't wear shorts out to a 4 star restaurant.  

Don't wear a suit and tie to a picnic.  

Thanks

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OSP799 reads

I try to avoid ladies who like to play dress-up.

I don't like any thing/place/one who/which requires the putting on of a 'pretentious mode'.

After all; isn't this adventure supposed to be fun?????

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Paris-Bouvier1026 reads

Unless the gentleman and I are going out to dinner, I don't care what he wears. Just as long as his clothes are clean. ;-) I do prefer for the gentleman to answer the door with clothes on. This give ME something to unwrap!

As for one testicle, I wouldn't disclose that information upfront. When you actually meet with the provider, then you can mention something...prior to her discovering it on her own.

Paris

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