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First Contact!!! What to say and when...
jazz32 24 Reviews 6682 reads
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a lot of the recent post on this board have revolved around what is in, and out of bounds, when setting up when setting up a first appointment.

Sorry to the more careful newbies, but until you have paid your money, everything is a gamble and  there is no sure thing.

When you call or e-mail her, feel free to indicate the website that inspired your inquiry, after all she is paying for these, and wants to know if she is spending her advertising dollars wisely.  You can also ask if the donation indicated is correct and current, just so nobody is embarrased.

Don't mention any sex acts you hope to experience, and believe that she offers!!!

After the transaction, I personally like presenting this is a greeting card, but I am a bit of a romantic, most questions are fair game.  Once the payment is made, LE concerns are eliminated by entrapment rules.  However, this doesn't mean that you are in for fair sailing!!!  There are many reasons why a lady will not offer a service she is known for, most of which don't involve you!!!

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. . . I don't want the gentleman to ask me via phone or email if the donation amount is "correct and current".  I don't want it mentioned at all for LE reasons.  It spooks me.

I understand your being skittish about it, but I've seen many times were donation amounts differ for the same provider depending on where it's advertised. How should you handle that? Also curious why she wouldn't perform acts she is known for, since that would be a main reason I chose her??

It could be that the reviews stating a particular act are fake, or she's changed her service to include/exclude certain things.  It could also be that hygiene plays a part.  I can't imagine anybody getting close to a case of swamp-ass, regardless of her normal routine.  Or it could just be that she was particularly attracted to somebody and did a thing that's a YMMV situation.  I've had it happen for the good and bad.  Look for consistency in reviews, specific accounting for an act in recent reviews, scrub yourself and be nice.  That should get you about a 99% success rate.

... or any lady.

I only ask this question when I see inconsistant rates in the ladies ads, or the only rate info I can find is on her TER profile, which the provider have very little control over.  I would also only ask this question AFTER you have passed her screening process!

Sorry Misty, but to visit the avg lady in PHX today now requires 2 visits to the ATM, on separate days (based on the rules of my bank).  I'm just trying to phrase the question as innocently, and indefinately as possible, without having to make a third trip to the ATM.

. . . yeah, jazz, I would think it was o.k. if you asked me about the donation amount AFTER the screening process was successful.  I see your dilemma.  

And regarding the post about performing certain acts...I'd feel o.k. if this was asked AFTER the screening process was successful.  For example, I don't do Russian but two or three of my reviews state that I performed Russian.  It's a matter of embellishment with some gentlemen, they thought about doing it and so, in the heat of writing the review, it's included.  I mentioned all of this to a gentleman and so one review mentions that I do NOT perform Russian, so I can see how it must seem confusing.

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